Month: April 2008

  • Dolly Parton’s Favorite Indian Food & Bassam’s Visit to the H.C.

    It was another busy day at the Hotel Careyfornia.  This afternoon two of my colleagues came over and we had a productive afternoon business meeting.  They wanted Indian food, so we walked over to Flavor of India for dinner at 6:30.  I had the Chicken Tikka Masala and Mixed Vegetable Sabzi (listed on the menu as Dolly Parton’s favorite, LOL).  It was yummy.

    Afterwards we went to Pinkberry for dessert.  As soon as I got home, Bassam texted to say he was at The Spanish Kitchen with Laura and Karen, so I quickly ran over there to meet them.

    After (their) dinner, we headed over to The Abbey, which was surprisingly packed for a Tuesday night, and much too loud for my 42 year old ears.  I had a hot chocolate, while the dancers entertained us.  

    Bassam and I got home about 2 AM.  He’ll be checking out of the H.C. in the morning and heading up to Santa Barbara.  It’s now 4 AM now and I have an early day tomorrow (today), so I bid you adieu.

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    Virginia Tech Days 1-3

  • Pulling Mussels From A Shell

    We got some mussels from the rocks behind the house today.  Preparing them and (me) eating them was an experience in and of itself, as this video will attest.  It’s 4:10 AM and I got home a little while ago.  Work early.  8 AM Conference Call!  Off to bed.  Have a good week!


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    A Year in the Life of Friends



    From: Carey Anthony
    To: Multiple Recipients

    Mon, Apr 14, 2008 at 3:15 AM
    As our far flung group continues to evolve and grow, our annual New Year’s sojourns
    have become many mini reunions throughout the year.  The latest this past weekend
    in Pacifica, was graciously hosted by Tom, Cathy & Patrick at their beach front estate.
    The weather was unbelievable (high 80′s) and little Patrick provided me with many
    spectacular photo opportunities.  Many of you joined us via Skype video and we were
    happy to share the sun and surf with you!

    The Hotel Careyfornia has also been extremely busy this year, but we still have good
    rooms available, so give us a call to book your travel plans now.

    For a taste of this past weekend, check out:

    http://xanga.com/careygly

    For a link to the actual photo album go to:

    http://picasaweb.google.com/careygly

    And for full size videos go to:

    http://youtube.com/profile_videos?user=careygly&p=r

    Have a great week!

    Carey

  • Daylights, Sunsets, Midnights & Cups of Coffee

    Here’s a video that starts with last night’s sunset.  Little Patrick kept plopping himself down right in front of the sun, and I kept moving him.  Afterwards, you can see Marcelo playing soccer with Patrick and finally me goofing around, all set to the theme song of our international group of friends.


    How Do You Measure – Measure A Year?
    In Daylights – In Sunsets
    In Midnights – In Cups Of Coffee
    In Inches – In Miles
    In Laughter – In Strife
    In – Five Hundred Twenty-Five Thousand
    Six Hundred Minutes
    How Do You Measure
    A Year In The Life?
    It’s Time Now – To Sing Out
    Though The Story Never Ends
    Let’s Celebrate
    Remember A Year In The Life Of Friends

  • Road Trip

    I drove up to Santa Barbara this afternoon and Eva and I headed up to San Francisco (Pacifica) in separate cars, as she had to drive a friend’s car up as a favor.  Bassam will fly in tomorrow, and all three of us will drive back Sunday.  We arrived at Tom, Cathy & Patrick’s beach home as the sun sank into the Pacific.  Now it’s 3 AM and the moon is sinking in too.   Here a few photos before bed.


    That’s my reflection taking a picture of Eva zooming down the 101


    A picture perfect day for a drive up the Pacific Coast


    Regular gas was $4.56/gallon in Kingsland, CA!!


    I was shocked!


    Eva nearly died!


    Marcelo, Emily, Eva & Mariana attempting to spell out “GLY” as the sun set.  Many of you have asked what “GLY” stands for.  Unfortunately, that’s a story I can only tell in person.  It would be impossible to explain in writing.  If you’re ever in Southern California, I’d be happy to share its origins!

  • Jad Gives Back

    Move over Bono, Mariah Carey and Miley Cyrus!  The Hotel Careyfornia hosted the one and only Jad-zilla last night for an Idol Gives Back viewing party.  The staff was star struck as Jad serenaded us with his best Hannah Montana impersonation. 




    I’ve got my sights
    set on you,

    And I’m ready to wait,
    I have a heart
    that will,

    Never be tamed,
    I knew you were somethin’
    special,

    When he’s holdin’ me,
    And i can’t wait to
    see you again

    I’ve got a way of knowin’
    When
    somethin’ is right

    I feel like I must of known
    you,

    In another life
    Cause i felt this deep
    connection,

    When you looked at my eyes,
    And I can’t
    wait to see you again…




    Darlene checked out of the HC this morning, and it’s empty now for a few days until the next wave of celebrities check in.    After work last night Dar and I walked down to the Collar & Leash and met this adorable morkie (eerily reminiscent of last week’s post).  There was also a guy in the pet food store with a baby duck!!  It wasn’t on a leash and it followed him wherever he went.  The dogs were going crazy!

       

    I’ll be heading up to Pacifica for a GLY reunion later this afternoon.  Have a great weekend!

  • Pinkberry With a Bonafide Hero – A Busy Night at the H.C.

    At the risk of sounding corny, I met one of my heroes today.  He writes a masterful blog which I follow religiously and enjoy immensely.  I’ve been corresponding with him for nearly a year, and his wit and  charm are even more keenly evident in person.

    He’s terminally straight and devilishly handsome, and he is literally an officer and a gentleman (and a good sport, despite my proclivities…).  He stopped by the Hotel Careyfornia today en route to a new assignment for the U.S. Armed Services.  He will likely be in Iraq and Afghanistan in the next year, and though I know that his training and his aptitude will serve him well, it troubles me to think of him in such a quagmire. 

    I write a lot of negative things about this war.  But at the end of the day, I’m grateful that people like James are on our side; protecting us and our way of life.  I’m really glad we got to spend some time together.  I look forward to when he gets out of the service and moves to California so we continue to expand each other’s horizons. 

     
    After some Pinkberry and lively conversation, we watched Tracey Ullman’s new sketch show “State of the Union“.  It’s so acerbically spot on, it’s uncanny.  I highly recommend it.

    Blogs & Kisses!

    As soon as James left, it was time for our next check-in.  My cousin Darlene has rented the Master Suite at the Hotel Careyfornia, for the next few days while she attends a meeting in Burbank.  Of course she brought Buster (the one eyed horndog) and Roxy.  They’re already enjoying their West Hollywood getaway! 

     

  • Xanga Followup & Long Duk Dong

    Here’s an update from Ben at Xanga about last week’s post:


    Carey Anthony 

    Please advise


    From: Ben – Xanga

    Mon, Apr 7, 2008 at 2:41 PM

    To:
    Carey Anthony

    Hi Carey,

    As soon as we have time, we’ll make it possible for you to
    opt out of the popup. This will most likely take the form of a setting or
    checkbox in your account settings that you will have to enable to prevent the
    popup from appearing.

    No worries about the email. It is actually a breath of fresh air
    to receive such a detailed email compared to the usual one or two liners that
    don’t provide us with enough information to understand and solve
    problems.

    -         
    Ben



    Most of you are too young to remember who Long Duk Dong is, but he was the foreign exchange student in the 1984 movie Sixteen Candles (he’s the one who tried to use the knife and spoon as chopsticks and well, if you want more YouTube has the goods).  The character would be even more controversial today, and many people believe he represents one of the “most offensive Asian stereotypes Hollywood ever gave America”  At any rate, the other night I was introduced to the actor who played Long Duk Dong while out with some friends.  I had met him before but he didn’t remember me.  He told me about being recently features on NPR’s “In Character” series, and I told him about my coincidental blog posting last week about the “Stuff Asian People Like” controversy.  I wonder if he’ll read it?  At any rate, he laughs at his own character, so that say something.

    And speaking of Bruce Lee and Asian stereotypes:

    And finally, to tie it all together I have four FREE tickets to Harold & Kumar Escape From Guantanamo Bay at the Arclight tomorrow night, for anyone in LA who wants them.  I can’t make it.  First come first served!  It looks like a great movie.  John Cho is really being talked up as a superstar of late.  (He’s also starring as Sulu in the new JJ Abrams Star Trek movie.)


    Turning Japanese – The Vapors – Sixteen Candles Soundtrack

  • “Fuck the President” & Brokeback Carey

    Stop-Loss Is Just the Beginning

    “Fuck the president!”

    So blurts Staff Sgt. Brandon King, played by Ryan Phillippe, after
    learning he’s being sent back to Iraq for yet another tour of madness
    in Stop-Loss.

    It’s hard not to like a film where an Iraqi combat vet, Bronze Star
    and Purple Heart barely warm on his breast, insults the
    commander-in-chief in front of his commanding officer.  Read more…

    Curry (Gary), his brother and I went to see this movie at the Arclight today, and I must say I was blown away. 

    Ryan Phillippe gave what I thought was an Oscar worthy performance and Joseph Gordon-Levitt was hauntingly good, as usual.  When Phillippe’s character shouted “Fuck the President”, someone in our theater cheered, resulting in spontaneous applause.  That says a lot right there.

    I was looking back at my blog entry from one year ago today.  It also featured Iraq:

    Is Iraq REALLY that bad? YES!

    This roundup of YouTube clips is
    meant to give a small sense of what it’s like for the people who are
    killing and getting killed in Iraq — a view that, limited as it is, one
    can’t possibly get from the mainstream newsmedia. Terribly sad.

    I highly recommend this movie.  I actually tried to see it Friday night, but it was sold out.  That’s a good sign.  I hope the rest of the country is watching.  This war is so ridiculous.

    “The main characters are small town kids dragging ghosts, nightmares,
    anger and despair in their wake. They have no real means of escape,
    apart from suicide, as the cycle of Middle East war spins madly on
    without end. If
    Stop-Loss conveys any message, it’s simply that.”

    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/620655167/the-increasingly-few–proud.html


    Here are a couple of shots from the roof of the Arclight.

    Speaking of Hollywood…Steve gave me the idea to upload my picture to find out which celebrities I resemble.  Here are the results.  LOL.  If I looked that much like Jake Gyllenhaal, do you think I’d still be single at 42? 




  • Puppy Mills & One Eyed Horn Dogs

    I Tivo’d Oprah today and tried to watch it tonight, but couldn’t get through it.  The subject was puppy mills and it was SO hard to watch.  I’m glad Oprah did the show though, because it will make people think twice before ever buying a dog in a pet store.  This is “Shrimp”, before and after the puppy mill:


    In January 2007, Bill rescued a Maltese-poodle mix from a breeder. The emaciated puppy had little hair and was close to death. Bill couldn’t leave him behind and adopted the little guy, naming him Shrimp.  Today, Shrimp is a happy and healthy member of Bill’s pack—and even wears a red bow in his full mane of hair. “Boy, what a makeover!” Oprah says.

    Speaking of cute dogs, my cousin Darlene’s dog Roxy needs a boyfriend. 

    Roxy

    Buster, the one eyed horndog, just isn’t cutting it

    I’ve got a few candidates in mind.  My first choice would be to clone my dog Oreo who died in 1987.

    RIP Oreo

    Garbo is also in the running, though he and Ruby are currently betrothed.

    Garbo & Ruby

    I’d love for Chris to bring Gromit out to meet Roxy.  I think they’d make a cute couple!

    Of course, I thought the same thing about Gromit & Oreo:

    gromitoreo
    Gromit (L), Oreo (R) – Kindred Spirits

    This week however, I met Ryno.  His owner Francis tell me he’s gay, but he hasn’t met Roxy yet, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed.  Ryno is a Morkie.  (Maltese + Yorkie, also known as a Yorktese).  Isn’t he the cutest thing you’ve ever seen??  I’m definitely more into big dogs (Oreo was 85 lbs.) but look at that face!!

    Have a nice weekend everyone!

  • Merry Go Rounds & Forced Subscriptions

    Our weekly family dinner was at the Irvine Spectrum tonight.  The kids had a nice time.  Here a few shots.  I’m still experimenting with the new camera.

    This is funny…Tommy overheard the adults talking and picked up on the term “Brother from another mother”.  He made a song about it, and after I filmed it, he wanted me to film it again while JUST keeping the camera on him and not moving it around to see all of our reactions.  LOL



    Complaint Department

    Is anyone else as annoyed about this as I am?  Maybe I’m being too hard on the good folks at Xanga.  They’ve been trying really hard this year.  I can be a bitch.  Is it just me??

    As you read this, keep in mind, it could be worse.  I like Xanga.  I didn’t like efax:


    Carey Anthony 

    Please advise
    5 messages


    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 8:56 AM

    To: Natalia – Xanga Support Team

    Natalia,

     Is there a way to disable the “Subscribe to get updates from this site” pop-up that appears for non-members who come to my site?  It’s
    deceptively annoying!  Why not let people subscribe to the RSS or Atom
    feeds like Blogger does?  95% of the time people don’t want to be
    forced to sign up for something just to read or receive updates on a
    blog.  If you simply allowed them to enter their email addresses to
    receive updates, and be done with it, that would be fine.  But if they
    do enter their email address, they’re brought to a Xanga sign up page
    which is EXTREMELY annoying and presumptive.


    If
    you’re not the person I should be bugging about this, let me know.  I
    can send it to Chris or John or whomever you tell me to.  Thanks



    Thanks,

    Carey


    From: Natalia – Xanga Support Team
    Date: Tue, Apr 1, 2008 at 12:15 PM
    To: Carey Anthony


    Hola. Hope the new year is finding you well – haven’t
    heard from you in a while.

    The pop-up is IP based, so it shouldn’t show up as long as
    your visitors aren’t clearing their cookies each day. It is deceptively
    annoying, yes, but it takes two seconds to register and we’re hoping that
    more people will take advantage of doing exactly what you said –
    receiving updates by email, even if that means they don’t update their
    own personal blog. So far, it’s actually been very effective, so . . .
    yes.

    And by the way, I almost didn’t email you back because I
    saw your “goodbye Xanga” post today – [faceplant].

    Have a good one.

    Can you drop Ben a line?


    From: Carey Anthony
    Date: Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 8:50 AM
    To: Natalia – Xanga Support Team
    Cc: Ben – Xanga

    Will do.  Thanks.

    Sorry
    to be a pest about this, but I don’t think Premium members should have
    to pay for a site that’s basically unusable until people choose to sign
    up or not.  Again, the way it’s done is very deceptive and shady.  If
    you just allowed people to enter their email addresses in for updates,
    that would be one thing, but to then trick them into signing up for
    something they have no intention of ever using, is entirely another. 

    Ben, please advise.

    Thanks


    From: Ben

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 10:18 AM

    To:
    Carey Anthony


    Hi Carey,

    I’m sorry that you are experiencing so many problems. Let
    me try and help you (or at least provide some answers).

    Is
    there a way to disable the “subscribe to this blog to receive updates”
    popup?

    The popup is meant to
    display only ONCE to users that are not signed in. The way we ‘remember’
    if we’ve shown the popup to a particular user is by using Browser Cookies.
    If the cookies are deleted, then our memory of having shown the popup is erased
    and the system displays it again upon the user’s next visit.

    Under normal
    circumstances, users WILL NOT see the popup if either of these two criteria are
    met: (1) user is signed into Xanga, (2) user has seen popup once before.

    You mentioned that
    your computer at work does not store cookies. Are you able to sign into Xanga
    from work? If so, then your computer’s browser should be able to store
    cookies since we also set cookies when users sign in.

    Hope this helps,

    Ben


    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 6:56 PM

    To:
    Ben

    Hi Ben,

    Thanks for the quick response.  As you
    know I’m a huge Xanga advocate, but this issue is really bothering me. 
    Let me try to articulate why.  I understand that the “subscribe”
    pop-up is based on cookies on the user’s computer.  I understand how
    this works and why you did it that way.  I must heartily disagree with
    its methodology though. 

    First of all it’s deceptive.  I would almost be OK with it
    if it simply allowed you to put in your email address to get email
    updates whenever I updated my blog, but even then I would want the
    option to turn it off.  As it stands now, once you put in your email
    address, you are then taken to a Xanga sign up page. This is a
    very tricky way of enticing people who simply wanted to get an email
    update about their favorite blog to sign up for a blogging service that
    they don’t want.  How do I know they don’t want it?  Because they have
    not signed up in the past!  Blog readers are not all blog writers.  I
    frequented many Xanga blogs for years before I decided to make the leap
    and create my own blog.  Before that, I signed up for Xanga simply in
    order to leave comments on other blogs (this was before you added the
    ability to let outsiders comment).  I think you need to ask yourself
    what the true intent of this feature is?  Natalia, after admitting it
    was deceptive, told me that it was indeed working to get new people to
    sign up.  I would be curious to know how many people that signed up as
    a result of that pop-up, actually started blogs.  And of those who did,
    how many became paying customers?

    As a loyal, paying customer, I find it extremely annoying
    that your are paralyzing (the screen is literally locked by this
    pop-up) my readers until this decision is made.  Yes, most people only
    see this once (until they clear their cookies).  But once is too much
    in my opinion.  I pay you to REMOVE pop-ups and advertising from my
    blog not create them.  I do not need Xanga deceptively recruiting my
    readers.  Why not let them poke around as I did, and decide for
    themselves?  As far as the cookies go, many advanced computer users
    choose to not allow cookies on many websites.  They are intrusive and
    sneaky.  I understand that under “normal” circumstances most people see
    the pop-up once.  What’s normal though?  I clear my cookies regularly
    as most people should.  Corporate users may have no control over
    whether or not cookies are allowed on certain sites (that’s the case at
    my company).  Yes, you can view Xanga from within the company’s
    network, but the cookies are blocked.  In addition, on a slow computer,
    the pop-up really impacts performance.  I had one person tell me that
    it took so long to clear that they closed their browser and gave up. 
    That should NOT be happening.  I looked at her computer today, and sure
    enough, because she doesn’t have enough RAM, my page loads and then it
    goes gray (see attached screen shot, grey.jpg), and then it takes about
    90 seconds to be able to say “no thanks” to the pop-up and then,
    because she’s not able to accept the Xanga cookie due to company
    restrictions, the whole thing happens the next time she tries to go to
    my site.  Long story short, she can’t read my site, and since she
    doesn’t have a computer at home, her lunch hour is the only time she
    can do it.  She likes my site, but she just can’t read it!

    You guys have been very good about adding new features and
    functionality this year.  In nearly every case though, you asked your
    user base about it before implementation and welcomed comments and
    feedback.  This feature seems to have been introduced with no input
    from the user base and no controls whatsoever.  While I appreciate your
    corporation endeavoring to build its clientèle, I can assure you that
    my elderly relatives and some computer illiterate friends will NEVER
    start a blog.  I can also assure you that I will not be allowing
    cookies I don’t need on my work laptop, because well, I don’t need
    them!

    I’ll end where I began.  The bottom line is that this feature is
    intrusive and deceptive.  It’s only goal is to get people to sign up
    for a service that they might not otherwise sign up for.  It does not
    work well for advanced users who choose to control the cookies their
    computer receives and for those who practice good computer maintenance
    by clearing their cookies.  It is confusing to less computer literate
    people and causes performance problems on older systems.  Why would a
    company with such a good reputation persist in this kind of trickery? 
    I humbly request that you reconsider this policy or at least provide  an
    opt-out. 

    Thanks for reading my rant.  Hopefully you understand what I’m
    trying to say here.  I enjoy working with you guys and only want the
    site to be better for everyone.  Customers and non  customers alike. 
    Thanks for your time.

    Carey
    http://xanga.com/careygly