Month: May 2008

  • He Went To McDonald’s

    18 years ago, on a Monday night, I was out at a club in Champaign, Illinois, nearby where I went to college.  At one point during the evening, I bumped into someone who for a minute looked like my roommate at the time, but it wasn’t.  At any rate, I said, “Hello, how are you?”  His response, in a thick Portuguese accent was, “I went to McDonald’s.”  I said, “Excuse me??”  He repeated, “I waynt to make doane ahlds”.  After some initial language barriers, Claudio and I became fast friends.  He eventually (with my help, LOL) learned English and even got his PhD.  He loved Oreo (that’s them on the left in 1990), and even taught him how to speak Portuguese.  The first time I ever went to Brazil, it was to see Claudio and meet his family, and I’ve loved the country ever since.  Claudio and I even lived together in Washington DC for a while.  We’ve been through a lot over the years and I was thrilled recently to learn that he’s moving to California with his partner Ryan!  He took a job teaching at a university about 45 minutes north of here.  This morning he flew in from South America and drove up to check out his new house.  Tonight we had a great dinner and caught up on old times.  By the way, he will deny the McDonald’s story, and swear he spoke perfect English when he moved to the States from Brazil in 1990, but I know better.  GLY Claudio! 


    After seeing the car he rented, I almost made him park on the next block over!


    He liked this car better (parked in front of Dom DeLuise’s son’s house)


    Then & Now

  • An Exploration of Human Emotion

    There was a message in the drumbeats. The final moments of the first
    international
    Pangea Day event on Saturday were big on symbolism, as
    seven drummers of varied cultures were linked via satellite from Stage
    15 at Sony Studios to an international drum circle scattered across the
    planet.




    There were drummers from Africa, Asia, the Middle East, South America
    and elsewhere, all beating as one during a worldwide broadcast designed
    to encourage peace and understanding. Pangea Day was a four-hour
    program of short films, live music and brief messages of hope, humor
    and sadness, named for the
    prehistoric super-continent.  “By sharing stories, we have begun the process of turning strangers
    into friends,” filmmaker Jehane Noujaim told the U.S. studio audience
    in Culver City on the same soundstage where Dorothy and Toto once
    danced down the Yellow Brick Road. Noujaim had conceived of the idea of
    a multinational film festival broadcast, and it was supported through a
    prize from the annual TED Conference, a gathering of creative thinkers
    in science and culture. 
    Read more…

    I really enjoyed Jonathan Harris.  He is such an innovator.  Harris, “makes online art that captures the world’s expression – and gives us a
    glimpse of the soul of the internet. His projects are both intensely
    personal (the “We Feel Fine” project, which scans the world’s blogs to
    collect snapshots of the writers’ feelings) and entirely global
    (“Universe,” which turns current events into constellations of words).
    But their effect is the same – to show off a world that resonates with
    shared emotions, concerns, problems, triumphs, and troubles.”  
    You fellow bloggers can search for your own blog on “We Feel Fine”.  I found mine!

    Mike was in town over the weekend, and we had a nice visit.  Have a good week everyone!


    Pangea Day — in quotes

    Pangea Day’s fabulous line-up
    of thought-provoking, inspirational speakers produced no less stellar a
    collection of memorable quotes and priceless bits of wisdom. A small
    sampling of what was heard:

    “By sharing stories, we’ve started the process of turning strangers into friends.” – Filmmaker Jehane Noujaim, TED Prize winner and founder of Pangea Day

    “We
    have a responsibility to expose ourselves to our world, to see our common
    humanity, to learn about other people — not only in times of war, but
    in times of peace. ” – Ishmael Beah, former child soldier and advocate for peace

    “When we look at the earth from space,
    we can see ourselves, our species, in its brave struggle. Yes, we’re
    troubled inhabitants of a small planet, but we’re also dreamers of
    dreams.” – Planetary scientist Carolyn Porco

    “Humans are — and must be — sensitive to differences. But we should find hope in realizing how rich and numerous our commonalities are.” – Anthropologist Donald Brown, author of Human Universals

    “If we are to prosper together in our increasingly small world, we must listen to — and learn from each other’s stories” – Queen Noor of Jordan

    When we laugh, we change. And when we change, the world changes.” — Dr. Madan Kataria, founder of the International Laughter Club

    “I
    feel like a hack… I feel I could be doing more… I feel sexy… I
    just want to feel alive for the first time in my life… I feel so much
    of my Dad in me that there isn’t room for me.” — A selection of feelings, sampled live from the Internet, by conceptual artist Jonathan Harris

    “We
    have the capacity and tendency to separate ‘us’ from ‘them.’ Once
    established, we’re more tolerant to those we call ‘us’ and more brutal
    toward ‘them.’ But increasingly, science shows there’s no limit to who
    we define as ‘us.’ Eventually, someday, there might not be any more
    ‘thems.’” – Psychologist Robert Kurzban

    How can films change the world? They can’t, but the people who watch them can. By changing minds, we change the world.” – Actress Cameron Diaz


  • Speaking of Faith

    The Flying Spaghetti Monster (also known as the Spaghedeity) is the deity of a parody religion called The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster and its system of beliefs, “Pastafarianism” The religion was founded in 2005 by Bobby Henderson to protest the decision by the Kansas State Board of Education to require the teaching of intelligent design as an alternative to biological evolution. Because intelligent design
    implies the existence of an intelligent, but not necessarily omnipotent
    or omniscient designer, some, like Henderson, argued that this designer
    could, in fact, be anything imaginable. (Source: Wikipedia and  Haochi)


    Cole had his First Communion this past weekend.  It brought back many memories of my own First Communion as well as some of the more ritualistic things I actually enjoy about the Catholic Church.  Coincidentally, on the way home, NPR‘s weekly religion show “Speaking of Faith” departed from their usual format to “listen to a spectrum of lay Catholic voices on the force of vast and ancient tradition on their lives, the way they struggle with it, the sources of their love for it. Even to be a “lapsed Catholic,” we hear, is a complex state of being.“  It was really interesting, and helped me understand some of my current struggles with religion a bit better.  At any rate, it was a beautiful day, and Cole seemed to have a great time!

  • Iraqi Waterparks – A Discourse on This American Life

    Update:  Haider Hamza, the subject of the video I posted here just wrote to me.  He saw the video and my blog, and then added me on Facebook so we’re chatting right now .  Isn’t technology wonderful?  I’l have more on this breaking story as it develops.  LOL.  He’s coming to LA in June and we’re having dinner.  Anyone have a question for an Iraqi?  He’s your man! 
    I have to get to bed now, as I have to wake up really early to go to my cousin’s First Communion.  LOL  How’s that for irony?  After this week, I hope my tongue doesn’t fall off when I take communion!  Pictures tomorrow!

    I met Lora & Frank for dinner tonight before we headed over to Century City for the the “This American Life” show, that was being broadcast to theaters nationwide, live from New York, with host Ira Glass.  For those of you TAL is a radio show on NPR and a TV show on Showtime“Each week the show loosely centers on a particular theme.  Content varies widely by episode, and stories are often told as first-person narratives. The mood of the show ranges from gloomy to ironic, from thought-provoking to hilarious.”  If you’ve never listened, I strongly encourage you to download the free podcasts.

    I wish the ignorant woman who left the comment on yesterday’s blog about Iraq invading America could have been there tonight!  (Actually, come to think of it, she wouldn’t have understood any of it.  She’s got her head too far up George W. Bush’s putrid ass.)  One of the stories featured an Iraqi student, living in America, who decided to travel around the Southern United States and gives red state Americans a chance to “Talk to an Iraqi”.  I filmed this clip in the theater tonight and the quality isn’t great.  For the whole thing, in two parts go to:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPEX0PnV-LU  and  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPfLdxEr0jk

    Haider Hamza of the Babylon province in Iraq is on a trip. He wants to resolve a conflict within himself.

    As a 22-year-old college student in New York, he loves America. But as an Iraqi citizen, he hates the suffering his people have endured in the chaos that followed the fall of Saddam Hussein.

    By meeting ordinary people in cities and towns across America this summer, Hamza hopes to quell the questions in his heart. He stopped in Fayetteville on Thursday. A five-person camera crew followed him.
    The cameras were for “This American Life,” a TV show on the Showtime cable network. The television show is based on the public radio show of the same name.

    As they do on the radio show, we present Hamza’s story in three parts.
    Act One: The library. A little girl gives Hamza insight.

    Act Two: The Chevy dealer. The sales manager tells Hamza why America invaded Iraq and why it can’t bail out now.
    Act Three: Epilogue. What does it all mean?

    The library
    Hamza conducted 16 interviews in his “Talk to an Iraqi” booth in front of the Cumberland County Public Library. His third guest was 11-year-old Tori Allen, who said her father has been in Iraq since May 2006. He won’t be home until November, she said.

    “I’ve been waiting to apologize to an Iraqi for the past three years,” she said. “I’m sorry for the way we walked into your country acting like we owned it. I’m really sorry about that.”

    She said Iraq didn’t attack the United States, so the U.S. shouldn’t have attacked Iraq.

    Tori caught Hamza off guard with her apology and her knowledge of world affairs. He laughed with surprise.

    “As an 11-year-old, shouldn’t you be playing, I don’t know, playing with dolls? Or going to school and hanging out?” he said. “Why do you spend your time following the news that’s happening halfway around the world?”

    “I just feel like I shouldn’t be oblivious. I mean there’s so much that I can do. I can make a difference,” Tori said.

    When she grows up, she plans to become a psychologist and then she wants to be president. She plans to run in 2032.

    Afterward, Hamza said Tori impressed him. “I just learned from her that the lives of American children have been directly affected and changed” by the war.

    The Chevy dealer
    All of Hamza’s guests at the library, from soldier’s spouses to a school teacher who drove about 30 miles to see him, said roughly the same thing: They support the troops and oppose the war.

    Hamza didn’t expect so many anti-war feelings in a military town.

    Gary Brown was so eager to give Hamza a different point of view that he invited him and the camera crew to set up at Powers-Swain Chevrolet on Bragg Boulevard. Brown is the general sales manager there.

    On the sales lot, surrounded by Impalas and second-hand Corvettes, Brown and Hamza hunched over the booth in intense conversation. They raised their voices at times, sometimes with emotion, sometimes to be heard above the roar of traffic.

    Brown supported the invasion. He believed Saddam had weapons of mass destruction and that he needed to be removed from power because he was an oppressive dictator.

    Now, even though there have been serious problems, the U.S. can’t leave, Brown told Hamza.

    “The Democrats are probably going to win the election next time because of this war,” he said. “I’m afraid they’re going to pull out, and the slaughter that could take place is — it’ll be disastrous. And I don’t want to see that happen.”

    Americans don’t like seeing the Iraqis dying in the conflict now, “but they don’t want to see them live in hell like they were before, when you don’t have a freedom.”

    “Hell is now,” Hamza told Brown. Iraq is extremely dangerous, he said. As long as there are foreign soldiers in Iraq, the insurgents will continue to fight, he said.

    What Does It All Mean?
    Brown was the type of person Hamza was hoping to meet on this trip, he said.

    Conservatives tend to be portrayed as refusing to listen to other opinions. Brown was different. Even though they disagreed, Brown and Hamza sat together, talked and listened with respect and open minds.

    “People like him are willing to talk…and accept a different point of view,” he said. “That’s very promising.”


    There’s still something wrong with the focus on my SD850 when it’s on automatic, so some of these are blurry, buy you get the idea.


    Dibs on the Dibs


    The show was being broadcast live from Skirball Center in New York.


    There was a funny segment on high school kids, and what’s important to them.


    And a great piece on kids from the projects of Philadelphia who ride horses through the city.


    An illustrated story about a Jackie Kennedy sighting in NYC.


    A 12 year old who decides to write a pornographic book, but knows nothing of sex.


    A summer camp for kids who want to be stand up comics.


    A story of two men who try to escape from prison with rope they made from dental floss.

     
    Carrie Bradshaw ain’t got nothing on Lora!


    Pondering this American life…or is it married life??

    It was timely that I went to this show tonight, as the story about the Iraqi tied in nicely to some of the comments that have been made on my blog the past few days.  Don’t you just love a healthy debate?  Here are a few of the response from this entry:



    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/651268943/pinkberry-with-a-bonafide-hero—a-busy-night-at-the-hc.html
    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/620655167/the-increasingly-few–proud.html
    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/622825885/fires-update.html
    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/652710662/burgers-with-smeagol-the-iraqi-lizard.html
    http://weblog.xanga.com/CareyGLY/597520961/email-diaries—the-death-of-oreo-christmas-in-africa-iraq–impeachment-if-only-today.html

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    Hey CareyGLY!
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    infinitysurfer just posted a comment on your weblog entry: “Pandora’s War Chest”

    @mdrezz - The problem with your tobacco industry analogy is that in your example, the inanimate, indiscriminate and soulless cigarettes are doing the killing. In theater, our soldiers, marines, airmen and sailors are doing the killing. How then, do you convince an entire military to well, keep killing? Promise them slices of future oil contracts? Obviously not. From all the way to the Commander-in-Chief down to mid-level officers to peons like me, we all saw/see reasons to continue our work, whether it be firsthand observations, intelligence reports, or personal convictions.

    If I was Bush, would I have gone into Iraq? No, I would’ve concentrated on Afghanistan. In fact, the majority of the military leadership (Powell included) despised the idea of invading Iraq– why diver the manpower and resources? But if I saw the false (or genuinely mistaken) reports the intelligence community produced at the time, I might have voted for the war (incidentally, Saddam was guilty of genocidal rage against the Kurds, which I believe is reason enough for the UN to have acted).

    Here’s the situation now: it’s generally accepted that the reasons Bush gave America to justify the Iraq invasion were false. Ok. But we can’t leave now. First of all, it’s damn near impossible logistically to move troops as quickly as some of the Democratic candidates suggested. Second of all, we fucked that place up. Iraq (which was stable under Saddam) is now in shambles. It’s now our responsibility to help fix it.

    We crashed a party, trashed the house and now must help clean it up.

    The problem, it seems, is tripartite: a) an ineffective and corrupt Iraqi government, b) Washington’s corruption and cronyism (just one example: giving away key reconstruction jobs to friends and associates rather than the most qualified), and c) the Sunni’s (perhaps rightfully justified) fear of being marginalized within the new government.

    Mdrezz, I certainly was not offended– everything I said was tongue-in-cheek, and I really do appreciate your thoughts.

    Hey CareyGLY!
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    mdrezz just posted a comment on your weblog entry: “Pandora’s War Chest”

    A very astute and insightful analysis, and a compelling argument for maintaining a military presence in Iraq. I completely agree with most of it. While I am obviously outraged by the fact that we invaded Iraq and are in this mess in the first place, I have always felt that it be would be grossly immoral and irresponsible to abandon these people to this theme park from hell we’ve created. It was Powell I think who trotted out the old Pottery Barn Rule first, and in principle it sure made sense to me then. Still does. We definitely broke it, so we ought to pay for it. And we do pay, but is the price realistically bearable? From an economic standpoint, it’s seems pretty untenable in light of the fact that we’ve been reduced to financing this romp by borrowing money from China. And the price in casualties? That’s not something we can sustain for much longer for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that we can’t continue to “recycle” our armed forces. How many consecutive tours of duty are we subjecting our soldiers to? (I’m genuinely asking you) We need to replenish our armed forces, but the recruiting climate is obviously less than ideal and it’s just not politically possible to institute a draft. As a member of the military, I trust you’ll forgive my armchair strategery for the amateur speculation it is, but short of a major infusion of fresh bodies, enough to constitute a force sufficient to the provide blanket coverage needed to pacify Iraq long enough to shore up a physical and institutional infrastructure, I don’t see how we can expect anything short of an extremely protracted engagement with the body count to match. Given this scenario, is it reasonable to sustain these casualty rates indefinitely because we created this mess, when we could pull them out and spare their lives instead? It’s not a decision I’m comfortable with. But I think the case could be made that it’s morally justified to withdraw when it seems we have limited hope of establishing a stable, humanitarian government (for the tripartite reasons you outlined, not to mention the influence of neighbors like Iran and Syria, among other reasons I’m not going to delve into to keep on track). So my beef generally is that we have no reasonable, sensible exit strategy in place at this point. And I think we need one. If that makes me a quitter so be it. If it means more suffering for those we left behind, this is unfortunate at best. If it means we risk ultimately having to return years from now to finish what we should’ve completed the first time, I’m prepared to take that chance. We need a phased withdrawal that is as sensitive to the Iraqi people’s circumstances as can be reasonably expected and makes sense logistically and strategically. As for the point about the tobacco companies, I concede it’s not a perfect comparison, but in principle I think it’s valid. Lastly, I think it’s not terribly difficult to convince the military to keep killing. Propaganda works wonders for starters. Isn’t Rush Limbaugh on Armed Forces Radio? How about Al Franken? But more importantly, the military serve at the pleasure and direction of the President of the United States. I think our soldiers take their constitutional duty quite seriously, and as we’ve seen in Vietnam, even decent men can be compelled to commit unthinkable atrocities under the right circumstances. I’m not saying our troops are committing atrocities, mind you, I’m just saying it would take quite a bit of convincing for most U.S. soldiers to lay down their arms unless ordered to do so by a qualified superior. So I agree and I disagree with you, I think. Either way, you make a very sound case.

  • Resurrection & False Idols

     

    “Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust; in sure and certain hope of the Resurrection into eternal life”

    Hallelujah!!
    Praise the Lord!!
    He is Risen!!

    Probably not what you expected my blog to start with, especially the day after my soul was banished to Hell for eternity.  LOL, but there has been a resurrection!

    Remember this entry from Valentine’s Day?


    RIP my poor little Canon SD850.  It got some sand in it at the beach last weekend, and tonight the lens got stuck, and broke. 

    On February 14, 2008 atapproximately 8:00 PM,Carey’s Canon SD850 was pronounced dead after a short battle with beach sand.  Last weekend, the camera was busily snapping away at its usual pace, when unbeknownst to Carey, some grains of sand nefariously crept into his pocket, invading the most delicate lens orifice and taking root.  The cough began Sunday night, and by Monday the camera’s breathing was heavy and labored.  Screws were loosened to relieve some pressure and a high powered air can was brought in from Culver City.  Despite a dedicated international team consulting with Carey around the clock, the camera succumbed to the gritty nemesis Thursday evening, surrounded by family.  His last picture in fact was of Carey’s cousin Darlene and his Aunty LuLu kissing his cousin Tommy. 

    The SD850 was preceded in death by his older brother SD800 and grandparents Canon AE1 Program and Canon EOS Elan IIE.  In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests Paypal donations to a new Canon G9 Fund set up in Carey’s name.  Burial arrangements have not been made public, for fear of intrusive paparazzi.  Rest in pieces.


    Regular readers of this space know that 2 days after I lost my SD850, a bouncing baby G9 was delivered by the Canon stork:

    When my baby G9 developed croup, he had to go into the hospital in Irvine to recover.  Since I’m extremely co-dependent, and couldn’t be without my camera for a week, I bought a cheap SD1000 at Costco the fateful night of my car accident on March 21st.  (That’s a whole other blog entry, but suffice it to say, I still don’t have my car back, and the damages are well past $10,000 now!)

    After I got the G9 back, I decided to keep the pocket camera, as it was convenient for walk around snapshots.  After the G9 was repaired however, the picture clarity was not as good as it used to be, so I took it back to Irvine last week to have them take a look.  Coincidentally, I had read about this amazing program that Canon is offering:

    Canon USA just started offering an upgrade option if you have an out of warranty PowerShot (not EOS) digital camera in need of repair (or if you have a repair that is not covered by the warranty, like dropping it). If you decide that you would rather upgrade to a refurbished camera in the same product line (ie. S100 to S400), you could choose to upgrade and send your older camera back when you receive the new one.The upgrade price seems to be about half the cost of purchasing the newer model. You do not get to choose which model (and in the case where you have a newer model, an upgrade may not be an option- even though the option is there for a replacement of the same model).In other words, if you have an S110, you couldn’t upgrade to a G5 or anS50. In many cases, the newest model in a product line (S500 and S60,for example) are not the upgrade model available.  For more information, call 866-443-8002.


    Taken with my cell

    So I took my old, broken, sandy SD850 in to them, and even though it was too new to be eligible for the refurbish program, they did say they would fix it for $99!  It was in pretty bad shape (as you can see above) and they basically replaced the entire casing. and lens.  It’s like a brand new camera.  She even gave me the option of waiting a year or two and trading it in as part of the refurbish program.  She said they would accept it even though it was completely destroyed.  I love Canon! 

    So now I have 3 working cameras, not to mention my old Canon AE1 Program and my old EOS Elan IIE (anyone want to buy them?).  The good thing about Costco is that you can return the camera within 90 days for a full refund, no questions asked.  So I’m returning the SD1000 and keeping the SD850 and the G9.  (Though I might consider selling one in the future…make me an offer)
     
     
     
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    Good as new!

    Paula Abdul was on Ryan Seacrest’s radio show this morning here in L.A.  She tried to explain her incredibly bizarre behavior last night.  Unfortunately, she made matters worse.  Take a listen:

      Now I doubt there are many people left in American who don’t believe that American Idol is at least a little rigged, but this opened up a whole new can Clay Fakin’!!  Speaking of Clay, he was on TMZ today.  Take a look.  Lord & Taylor!


    Guess which one’s Clay Gayken??

    paulaontoilet VFTW:  In damage control mode today, Paula Abdul tells Entertainment Tonight that she was actually commenting on David Cook’s song when she mentioned Jason’s “second song” during her infamous flub on the show last night. It’s not believable, she should’ve just gone with the “I’m drunk” excuse. Her critique on “Jason’s second song” was that he wasn’t trying hard enough to get into the top 4 and that it wasn’t good. Her critique of David after catching herself was that he was good. This should be proof enough that Idol isn’t even good enough at lying to fix simple problems that expose how fixed the show is. If it truly was a misunderstanding, it would be easy to explain. But since Paula is lying about it, something is up. Also, EW’s Popwatch blog talks about how Nigel Lythgoe was FREAKING OUT when Paula messed up with quotes like, “Nigel was frantically gesturing a single finger to anyone who could see him: ONE SONG! THEY’VE ONLY SUNG ONE SONG!” The fact that Nigel was freaking out is a sure sign that this was definitely something big. (If you missed Paula’s flub, you can check it out here.)