Month: August 2010

  • Animals Make Us Human

    It was nice to see the HBO film, “Temple Grandin” starring Claire Danes, take home so many Emmy Awards last night. 

     

    For those of you unfamiliar with Ms. Grandin’s work, I highly recommend the movie, which is available on HBO On Demand in the U.S.  There are also several clips on YouTube.  I’ve been a fan of Temple Grandin for quite some time.  Her insights into autism are truly ground breaking.  I also encourage anyone with an autistic relative to take the time (3 hours) to watch her fascinating C-Span interview: 

    The first book I ever read by Temple Grandin was called “Animals in Translation“. 

    I’d love to read it again, but unfortunately when Chazz was six months old, he destroyed it, along with another book entitled “The Moral Animal“.  Apparently Chazz does not agree with the Academy when it comes to Temple Grandin!


    The first time I ever left him alone, this is what I came home to.  See how guilty he looks?


    He chose his books very carefully!


    He focused in particular on a chapter entitled “Animal Feelings”


    He knew he was in big trouble…he “felt” it!


    And ripped out the page on “Animal Aggression”  I kid you not!

    Another great book by Temple Grandin is called “Animals Make Us Human“.  In it, she:

    …brings us together with our dogs by making us understand that in essence dogs feel the same things that we as humans do. Grandin is a person with autism and acutely understands how dogs make us human. She tells us that dogs share the same basic emotions that we as humans do. They feel joy, sorrow, fear, happiness and unhappiness. This book teaches dog owners how to best set up their dogs to live a full and happy life.

    In the touching book, the sentimental author shows us how she thinks like an animal in that she pictures words not as letters but in pictures and thus can relate to dogs on their level. It is intriguing and awe inspiring to read how she looks at the world and learns how she believes we should relate to our dogs. It is a fascinating read full of insight and great tips on how to keep your dog a happy one. Anyone who loves dogs will enjoy this book thoroughly. There isn’t a book like it anywhere that’s for sure.  Read more…

    So congratulations to Temple Grandin.  I’m sure this Emmy will will expose her important work to many more people around the world.  See?  Hollywood ain’t so bad!  Here are a few more photos from the week:


    Great photobomb Cole!!  And I didn’t even have to use this:

  • The Naked Ape in a Cesspool

    I was in Orlando last week on business and was reminded again what a cesspool it is.  On the plane ride out I re-read the book, “The Naked Ape”, and even though it was first published in 1969, it’s amazing how relevant it still is. 

    “A startling view of man, stripped of the facade we try so hard to hide behind.”  In view of man’s awesome creativity and resourcefulness, we may be inclined to regard him as descended from the angels, yet, in his brilliant study, Desmond Morris reminds us that man is relative to the apes–is in fact, the greatest primate of all.  With knowledge gleaned from primate ethnology, zoologist Morris examines sex, child-rearing, exploratory habits, fighting, feeding, and much more to establish our surprising bonds to the animal kingdom and add substance to the discussion that has provoked controversy and debate the world over. Natural History Magazine praised The Naked Ape as “stimulating . . . thought-provoking . . . [Morris] has introduced some novel and challenging ideas and speculations.” “He minces no words,” said Harper’s.  ”He lets off nothing in our basic relation to the animal kingdom to which we belong. . . He is always specific, startling, but logical.”  Source: amazon.com

    On the flight home, I read a short little book called “Between Barack and a Hard Place – Racism and White Denial in the Age of Obama“.  The first half of the book was a little too heavy on statistics, but overall it was a relevant voice of reason, especially in light of all the Muslim nonsense.

    Even though I was only in Florida, the wackiest of purple states, for a few days; the political ads for today’s primaries were disgusting.  Luckily I was surrounded by a bunch of good friends from Portland who were mostly of the same political persuasion.  We discussed at length, this research from Social Psychology Quarterly:


    Higher intelligence is associated with liberal political ideology, atheism, and men’s (but not women’s) preference for sexual exclusivity

    More intelligent people are significantly more likely to exhibit social values and religious and political preferences that are novel to the human species in evolutionary history. Specifically, liberalism and atheism, and for men (but not women), preference for sexual exclusivity correlate with higher intelligence, a new study finds.

    The study, published in the March 2010 issue of the peer-reviewed scientific journal Social Psychology Quarterly, advances a new theory to explain why people form particular preferences and values. The theory suggests that more intelligent people are more likely than less intelligent people to adopt evolutionarily novel preferences and values, but intelligence does not correlate with preferences and values that are old enough to have been shaped by evolution over millions of years.”

    “Evolutionarily novel” preferences and values are those that humans are not biologically designed to have and our ancestors probably did not possess. In contrast, those that our ancestors had for millions of years are “evolutionarily familiar.”

    “General intelligence, the ability to think and reason, endowed our ancestors with advantages in solving evolutionarily novel problems for which they did not have innate solutions,” says Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist at the London School of Economics and Political Science. “As a result, more intelligent people are more likely to recognize and understand such novel entities and situations than less intelligent people, and some of these entities and situations are preferences, values, and lifestyles.” 

    An earlier study by Kanazawa found that more intelligent individuals were more nocturnal, waking up and staying up later than less intelligent individuals. Because our ancestors lacked artificial light, they tended to wake up shortly before dawn and go to sleep shortly after dusk. Being nocturnal is evolutionarily novel.

    In the current study, Kanazawa argues that humans are evolutionarily designed to be conservative, caring mostly about their family and friends, and being liberal, caring about an indefinite number of genetically unrelated strangers they never meet or interact with, is evolutionarily novel. So more intelligent children may be more likely to grow up to be liberals.  Read More…

    I was pleased how nicely this all tied in with my choice of reading material for the trip.  I came back to the liberal wasteland of Hollywood, content in the fact that I’m smarter and more evolutionarily advanced that the simpletons in Florida who gave us George W. Bush.  The one good thing I can say about Orlando, is that they have pretty clouds!  Too bad there’s no heaven!


    I guess Disney World isn’t the “Happiest Place on Earth” for dragonflies, as I found this one dead on my bed! 
    I wonder if his dreams came true?? For a few more photos, click here.

  • It Was the Summer of ’85 – Xangalebrity Edition

    June, 1985 was a big month for me.  I moved out of the dorms in college and into my first real home with 3 friends.  I got my dog, Oreo, who was my constant companion for the next 12 years.  I lost my virginity (to a girl), made lifelong friends that I still have today and developed my identity.  I was 19 years old, about to turn 20.  I had yet to travel the world, but I was beginning to gain my wanderlust.  The next five years would turn out to be the most pivotal of my life.  They were years I look back on fondly.  It was a time of big hair, skinny ties, great music and carefree times.  To get through college I babysat for about 50 kids, and worked at 2 homes for the developmentally disabled.  Last week, one of those “kids” found me on Facebook and sent the following messages:

    Just like now, I took lots of pictures of kids and my dog.  Jocelyn’s message inspired me to scan a few of them. Try not to laugh too hard!  (Time to go on another diet!)


    TJ, Stormy, me, Robert, their cousin & Oreo in our house in Charleston, IL 1986


    No, I wasn’t a Republican and I wasn’t channeling Alex P. Keaton! This was during the Statue of Liberty Centennial in New York City July 3, 1986. Nice Trump hair, LOL!  I still can’t believe I posed with that asshole Reagan, who was singlehandedly responsible for the deaths of tens of thousands of AIDS victims.  Guess I wasn’t too political back then.

     


    The summer of ’85 in Aspen, CO.  I can still use those jeans as a bracelet!


    Mason, Matt & Oreo, 1986


    May 18, 1987. Oreo ran up on stage when he saw me get my diploma!


    The above referenced, Jocelyn


    Oreo & Mason – Chicago, IL  Easter 1988


    My best friend Daniel, in our kitchen in Arlington Heights, IL – Christmas 1989


    Daniel Jr. & Scotty – The mullet years


    Brendan & Jocelyn at the Field Museum in Chicago


    LOL…the B&B Daniel & I stayed in before the REM concert in 1989.  We were SO alternative!  :)

     
    Bob Sheu & Oreo in St. Joseph MI at Billy’s cottage & Daniel in the backyard posing


    If you still want to see more, here they are!


    25 summers later and I’m running a world class luxury boutique hotel!  Just kidding of course, though sometimes it feels like a real hotel.  A couple of famous Xangalebrities came by for lunch today.  Alex, also known as RoadLessTaken and Sam, (NotYourSon) formerly known as WhereTheFishLives.  They both had “holding the Hotel Careyfornia” sign on their Bucket Lists, so I was happy to oblige:

     
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  • Viva La Vie Boheme!

    What a week!  After arriving from Africa, Darlene & Jay left California on Monday and Rob arrived on Tuesday.  It was a whirlwind week, and he made me realize I’m not as young as I used to be.  I think I slept a total of  six hours all week!  We had a great time though, as these photos will attest.  It was exciting to have him here on Wednesday when the California Supreme Court finally ruled that Proposition 8, the ban on gay marriage, was unconstitutional.  My feelings on this are well documented.  It was nice to be able to attend the rally in West Hollywood with Rob and celebrate this small victory on the road to equality.  For those of you who don’t agree, please watch this:  :) 


    The Colbert Report Mon – Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
    How to Ruin Same-Sex Marriages
    www.colbertnation.com


    For more of my photos from Wednesday’s Prop 8 Rally in West Hollywood, click here.  For last year’s star studded rally (where Chazz met President Obama), click here.


    The fabled sign will never be the same!


    Psychedelic Rob!


    Hooray for Hollywood!


    At the historic rally, listening to Ted Olson, David Boies and Chazz’s buddy, Dustin Lance Black


    We even managed to meet Thai Elvis at The Palms!


    Our friend August’s back yard in Perris, CA was stunning!


    Apparently guns are allowed in Perris! :)


    August making a ninja catch!


    Trying not to laugh or move!


    At The Abbey with Ryan & Claudio


    It’s late!


    Snuggle buddies!


    Here’s to good times at The Hotel Careyfornia!


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    The week was topped off last night with a performance of “Rent” at the famed Hollywood Bowl.  Directed by Neil Patrick Harris, who originated the role of Mark in L.A. in 1997, and starring Vanessa Hudgens, Nicole Scherzinger, Wayne Brady, Tracie Thoms, Gwen Stewart and other Rent veterans, the show was a dazzling, sumptuous feast, set amongst the tranquil Hollywood Hills. Even though this was my 16th viewing (in 7 countries and 5 languages), it never gets old. “There’s only now, there’s only here. Give in to love, or live in fear. No other path, no other way. No day but today.

    rent

    The underlying themes in Rent” have resonated with me for nearly 15 years.  When I first saw the play in 1996 in New York City it spoke to me like nothing I had ever seen.  The story is an old one, 159 years old to be exact.  1851 was the year that Henri Murger published the book Scènes de la Vie de Bohème a story about his friends; so called “Bohemians” or “starving artists” living in the Latin Quarter of Paris in the mid 1800′s.  His friends had the same names as the central characters in “Rent” (with American updates; Rodolpho became Roger, Marcel became Mark, etc.).  50 years after the book was published, Puccini turned it into the famous opera La Boheme, which in turn, 100 years later became the musical “Rent“.  The central themes of all three were the same, though the times, plagues and vices were different.  Wikipedia presents this chart:

    Character in La bohème Character in Rent
    Mimi, a seamstress with TB Mimi Marquez, an S&M dancer with AIDS
    Rodolfo, a poet with TB Roger Davis, a musician with AIDS
    Marcello, a painter Mark Cohen, a filmmaker
    Musetta, a singer Maureen Johnson, a bisexual performance artist
    Schaunard, a musician with TB Angel Dumott Schunard, a gay cross-dressing drummer with AIDS
    Colline, a philosopher with TB Tom Collins, a gay computer whiz and Anarchist philosopher with AIDS
    Alcindoro, a state councillor Joanne Jefferson, a lesbian lawyer
    Benoit, a landlord Benjamin ‘Benny’ Coffin III, also a landlord

    No matter how hard the characters try to fight it, they all come to the realization that love is the strongest force we know.  Stronger than heroin, AIDS or even death.  Be it the “starving artists” in the Latin Quarter of 19th Century Paris, the American Bohemians like Jack Kerouac in the 50′s or the drug addled, AIDS victims in Jonathan Larson’s masterpiece “Rent”; they all knew this “fact”, and they lived their lives accordingly.  Even in this age of social networking and a truly wired global technosphere; it’s good to be reminded that we are all connected by the powerful force of love, and that a broken heart universally hurts.  “We don’t own emotion, we rent.”  How ironic, that Jonathan Larson, the composer and playwright of “Rent”, dropped dead of an aortic aneurysm the night before the show opened on Broadway in 1996.  After all, “Rent” is about living for today, because you never know what tomorrow might bring.

    Last year I had a conversation with an acquaintance I first wrote about in this post, entitled “Perceptions” three years ago (she’s also an evangelical Christian).  She told me that I would be proud of her, because she finally watched the movie, based on the musical “Rent”.  I asked her how she liked it, and she basically thought it was “disgusting”.  At first I was taken aback by her response.  I know the movie wasn’t nearly as good as the play, but it was unfathomable to me how anyone could find these ageless, central themes anything but life affirming and beautiful.  She admittedly shed tears at the sad parts, but implied that all of the tragedy and sadness of the movie was a result of the characters (“Lesbos” was one of the words she used), not seeking the “love of God”.  They were seeking love in the wrong place.  Their addictions, (heroin) and diseases, (AIDS) were their own doing.  I fail to see the Christ-like thinking in this sentiment and told her so.  Coincidentally, the initial person I referenced in the “Perceptions” post in 2007, whose family fled from tyranny, starred in the ensemble of “Rent” this past weekend at the Hollywood Bowl.  A full circle moment.

    “To sodomy
    It’s between God and me.
    To faggots, lezzies, dykes, cross dressers too.
    To me….To you….
    To people living with….not dying from disease.
    Let he among us without sin,
    Be the first to condemn.
    La Vie Boheme.
    Anyone out of the mainstream.
    Is anyone in the mainstream?
    Anyone alive with a sex drive.
    Tear down the wall.
    Aren’t we all?
    The opposite of war isn’t peace.
    It’s creation.
    La Vie Boheme.
    Viva La Vie Boheme.”

    Here are some photos and a video from last night:


    Sorry for the shoddy video…I was trying to be discreet…but you get the idea!

  • It’s Their Elephant Cloud

     
    August is shaping up to be another busy month at The Hotel Careyfornia.  Tomorrow, Rob is visiting for the week before heading to the Philippines.  This past weekend, my friends Darlene & Jay arrived after spending the past year trekking throughout Africa.  I’ve been following their adventures on their award winning blog:  http://elephantcloud.net all year, but it was so great to have them here in person relaying their remarkable stories. (You can read why their blog is called The Elephant Cloud, here.) 

    Anyone who has ever visited Africa knows the hold it takes on your heart.  I have written about my own journey there, but what Jay & Darlene have done this past year, surpasses all of my humble exploits; and they have surely left Africa a better place.  Darlene, a physician’s assistant by trade, and Jay a software developer; brought their unique blend of talents and compassion to the farthest reaches of the continent, to the people who needed it most.  The most recent example, before they left, involved Darlene treating patients for a newly rediscovered and debilitating foot disease at the Adventist Hospital in Gimbie, Ethiopia, while Jay followed the progress of the Podoconiosis treatments which the hospital was sponsoring.  Through publicizing this on their blog, they were able to get over 900 pairs of shoes donated to the cause.  See for yourself:

    Their adventures are truly inspiring.  Whether it’s helping Tanzania’s forgotten children, being mobbed by Egyptian paparazzi  or communing with lions and giraffes in the Serengeti, they are living life full force.  How many of us have secretly desired to sell our homes and all of our worldly belongings, leave our jobs and travel the world to make it a better place?  As someone who explored the world for many years without a home, I can somewhat relate; but Darlene and Jay’s journey is the definition of epic.  I’m honored that they stopped here to share their wonderful essence and remind me what matters most in this life.  Here are some photos from our weekend together:


    They flew from Africa to New York and then made their way west with all of their belongings.  I wasn’t sure what to expect when they arrived, but I was picturing the opening of the Beverly Hillbillies.  Sure enough they drove right through Beverly Hills and made it to the world famous Hotel Careyfornia!


    A LONG way from Africa!


    In good company!


    The bouganvillea in bloom against a stunning foredrop!


    They hadn’t had sushi in a year, so to say we “feasted” would be a huge understatement….I’m still full 3 days later!  It was great though!  Thanks guys!

     
    This was our second star sighting of the weekend…it’s Busy Philipps from “Cougartown” and E.R.  Our first sighting happened the night before as we walked home past the House of Blues and someone asked us, “Hey, do you want to get high with a celebrity?”  We turned around to see Andy Dick in a dark corner…getting high.  LOL.   Needless to say, we passed.


    Chazz waiting for leftovers from Claudio’s Brazilian barbecue


    Making s’mores!

     
    Ryan and I enjoying the s’mores and the company


    Guess who’s up to his old tricks again??  He made his placemat an oxymoron!


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