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  • The Prettiest City in America

    Some say that Chicago’s nickname of “The Windy City” comes from its political history. Specifically, they reference the “spectator sport” style of politics practiced in the last century, and the adage that when Chicago politicians speak they are “blowing a lot of wind”. It is meant to be a jab towards the Chicago Democratic Machine, which for the most part has been led by the Daley family for the past 50 years. Although machine politics has mostly fallen out of style elsewhere in the United States, it is, for the most part, alive and well in Chicago.  Source:  Wikipedia

    Updated photos & new blog: May 1, 2010:  http://careygly.xanga.com/726530473/americas-prettiest-city/



    View from room in Hyatt Regency


    Millennium Park


    The Bean


    The Wrigley Building on the left and Tribune Tower on the right


    Looking north on Michigan Ave.


    The new, unfinished, Trump Tower


    Looking south on Michigan Ave.


    NBC Tower


    The famous Chicago Theater on State Street, that Great Street.


    The “L”

    More at:  http://picasaweb.google.com/CareyAnthonyGLY/

  • Eating Candace on a Stormy Sunny Midwest Day

    It’s late and I have to wake up at 6 to take the train into Chicago, so I’ll just post a few photos and this quick story.  My Mom got an email (excerpt above) from an old friend recently, who told a story about when I was three years old.  The friend’s daughter’s name was Candy, and apparently because of that, I bit her (to see if she tasted sweet)!!  I guess I had quite the sense of humor even at three.  Poor Candy always insisted on being called “Candace” after that.  Gee, I hope I didn’t scar her for life (physically and mentally).  Candy, if you ever read this, I’m sorry!! 

    We managed to dodge all the tornadoes around Illinois today, and in typical June fashion it went from hot, humid and stormy this morning to cooler and sunny, to hot, sunny and humid, to huge thunderheads at sunset and finally a dazzling thunderstorm to go to sleep by.  I love a rainy night.  We don’t get thunderstorms in Los Angeles!


    Before breakfast.


    On the way to breakfast.


    Cheyenne, after lunch!


    A photo of a photo of my parents on their wedding day in 1963 two years before I was born.


    Me, being butch at my brother’s office.


    Dinner, with Mom & David


    And the storms move in again!

     

        


    Death by barbed wire
       


    I played around with different hue settings on the camera.


    Including tugsten…


    …and sepia.


    Think Wizard of Oz!


    Carey, you’re not in LA anymore!

  • Culture Shock, Idols & Puppies

    I flew to “Sweet Home” Chicago today.  I haven’t been home in over a year, and since I have a conference to attend downtown this week, I flew in early to spend some time with my Mom and my brother and niece.  Before leaving Los Angeles thought, guess who I ran into at LAX??


    My old buddy Jason Castro

    The plane to Chicago was virtually empty, so there was a lot of room to spread out.  The girl in front of me had the cutest puppy with her, and the kids on the plane all had a ball playing with the puppy, as did I. 

    It was a beautiful day for flying:


    The Port of Los Angeles


    This cutie’s Dad is a doctor at UCLA and her Mom’s a school counselor.  Super nice folks!

    My brother picked me up at O’Hare, and brought me to his hometown, about 60 miles west of the city.  It might as well be Iowa though!  There’s one tiny biker bar in town, which as you can see from these photos is the “hot spot”.  I find it hilarious that I left West Hollywood this afternoon, in the middle of Gay Pride weekend, and tonight I’m in a Harley bar 2000 miles away in Elburn, Illinois watching drunk Midwestern girls dance on the bar.  Oh, and it was karaoke night.  LOL


    As I don’t drink, I was a little out of my element!


    The guy in the middle is (I suspect) the only gay guy in this little town.


    This pretty much sums up the mind set here


    That’s my little brother on the right


    A robin laid some eggs in his back yard…Spring in the Midwest

  • Steve Carell’s Doppelganger, Hillary’s Not Going, Knocking With My Cousins & Muskrat Love


    Carey Anthony


    get smart

    2 messages



    From: Tony

    Thu, Jun 5, 2008 at 12:03 AM

    To:
    Carey Anthony

    hey carey
    so i’ve always thought u
    look a bit like steve carell.  so i made one of my movie profile pics
    thingy for ya.  hope you like it!




    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Jun 5, 2008 at 1:05 AM

    To:
    Tony

    WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I love it!!   You’re the best!!!
    I’m
    also a huge Get Smart fan (I loved the original TV series, it came out the year I was born, 1965), and you’re not the first person who’s
    noticed the Carell resemblance.   Thank you so much.  And thank you
    for not thinking I look like Dewey Cox!!!!    If I knew PhotoShop,
    you would definitely be my Brad Pitt! 

    Thanks again!

    Carey


    Speaking of not knowing PhotoShop, I created and wrote this today after reading David’s entry about Hillary and listening to Jennifer Hudson’s latest single (which is quite catchy) on her website:  www.jenniferhudsononline.com.

    Sung to the tune of “And I Am Telling You, I’m Not Going” from Dreamgirls

    And I am telling you
    I’m not going.
    This is the best race, I ever ran.
    Even though he’s a black man,
    No, no, no, no way,
    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.
    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.
    I don’t want to be beat.
    I’m stayin’,
    I’m stayin’,
    And you, and you, you will elect me.
    Ooh, you will elect me.

    And I am telling you
    I’m not going,
    Even though the rough times are showing.
    There’s just no way,
    There’s no way.
    We’re not part of the same place.
    We’re not part of the same time.
    We don’t share the same blood.
    In fact he’s a black guy.
    And time and time we have not much to share,
    No, no, no,
    No, no, no,
    I’m not wakin’ up tomorrow mornin’
    And findin’ that Bill’s not even there.
    Darling, there’s no way,
    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.
    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.
    You see, there’s just no way,
    There’s no way.

    Screw Martin Luther,
    Yell, scream and shout.
    You can say what you want,
    I’m not gettin’ out.
    Stop the convention,
    Push, strike, and kill.
    Just like Ralph Nader,
    There’s no way I will.

    And I am telling you

    I’m not going.


    This is the best race, I ever ran.


    Even though he’s a black man,


    No, no, no, no way,


    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.


    Oh, I’m not not livin’ in the White House,


    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.


    I don’t wanna be beat.


    I’m stayin’,


    I’m stayin’,


    And you, and you,


    You will elect me.


    Oh, hey, you will elect me,


    Yes, ah, ooh, ooh, ‘lect me,


    Ooh, ooh, ooh, ‘lect me,


    ‘Lect me,


    ‘Lect
    me,

    ‘Lect
    me,

    ‘Lect
    me.

    You will elect me.

    This still gives me goose bumps when I watch it.  I remember seeing it at the Arclight when it first came out.  There were a bunch of celebrities in the audience, including Whoopi Goldberg and Ron Howard.  Everyone stood up, in the middle of the song and started applauding until it was over.  It was the first time I’d ever seen that happen in the middle of a movie!


    Lisa and I took the boys to Costco tonight to finally return my third camera.  They took it back, no questions asked (2 1/2 months after purchase), and gave me cash.  Gosh, I love Costco.  (The only thing that bummed me out was that my SD850 (that I spent an addition $100 repairing) was on sale for $275 and it came with a free flatbed printer scanner!!)

    After shopping we took the boys at met Joel at Pei Wei, where they both tried their hand at chopsticks, with a little help.


    Andy and his knock knock jokes.  LOL.
    By the way, check out YouTube’s new annotation feature.  It’s not available yet for embedded videos, so take a look here:  http://youtube.com/watch?v=gJ8XpEHrjQg

    When I got home, this little fella was blocking my way into the garage.  I got out of the car to try to shoo him away and he was hurt and moving really slow.  I felt kind of sorry for the ugly bugger, and directed him toward the bushes.


    I know it’s not a muskrat, it’s a possum, but it gave me the opportunity to post this ridiculously cheesy song from the 70′s.  LOL


  • The Right Way & The Wrong Way

    Once again, I couldn’t resist posting this video of Colin, who watched Spiderman last weekend, and has been playing “Spiderboy” with his Daddy non-stop ever since.  THIS is how parents should treat their children:

    This however, is NOT how parents should treat their children: (Since I posted this, YouTube disabled the embedding of this video, so you can click here to watch it.)


    I ran across this video randomly on YouTube a few weeks ago, and my heart sank for this poor little boy.  I have no idea who he is.  The father obviously must not have realized how terrible he was being, since he posted it on YouTube, right?  Judging from the comments people left on YouTube though, most people think it’s hilarious.  I know it’s hard not to laugh, especially since the kid is so cute, but it’s such a terrible way to treat a child.  My friend Marcelo, who teaches this type of development in children and has a PhD to prove it, summed it up best when I emailed this to him:

    Oh my word!!!!!!!  I am going to use this for my class on “the way parents unwittingly fuck up their children for life” next semester!!!  I can see how the father thought it was funny.  But from my viewpoint this is an awesome instantiation of the horror in the making, especially after 4 days of intense debate about the development of the mind, self, and society.  One young human is showing the utmost concern about another, younger human.  He is trying so hard to communicate in the way adults seem to prefer.  He is sounding off his vowels and the final consonant with such care and determination that his mouth and whole face are contorting into exaggerated expressions.  The struggle for communication is so primal, so feral, so desperate.  And then, he is making the same critique that I, a professional in the area, is making watching his father’s way of responding: It’s not funnyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!  My heart broke. Beijos –Marcelo

    I wish everyone could have parents as wonderful as Colin’s!!  Every child deserves that kind of love.


  • It Doesn’t Get Any Cuter Than This & Making Herstory “His”tory

    When my little buddy Colin decided he wanted to play “train”, but had no tracks, he improvised.  I love this kid more than life!  xoxo



    Carey Anthony


    Tonight

    1 messages


    From: Hillary Clinton

    Tue, Jun 3, 2008 at 8:56 PM

    Reply-To:
    info@hillaryclinton.com
    To: Carey Anthony


    Dear Carey,

    Over the course of this campaign, I have seen the promise of America in
    your courage and character (Ummm….you have??), your energy and ingenuity (Well, I am rather ingenious), and your
    compassion and faith.  (MY faith Hillary? Are you sure??)

    Your spirit has inspired me every day in this race.  (It has?  Really?)  While I traveled
    this country talking about how I wanted to help you
    (Hillary, you know who this is right??) — time and again,
    you reached out to help me
    (Wait, are you talking about this?). To grab my hand or grip my arm (Sorry to disappoint you Hillary, but I never touched you ,honest.  I’m not sure who you’re confusing me with (obviously not your husband), but honestly, I never laid a hand on you!), to look me
    in my eyes and tell me, don’t quit, keep fighting, stay in this race
    for us. 
    (I hate to burst your bubble, but I switched over to Obama shortly after I voted for you in the California primary.  Are you sure this email wasn’t meant for Jim Carrey?)   There were days when I had strength enough for the both of us
    (Gee, thanks, I guess) and on the days I didn’t, I leaned on you. (Cue Bill Withers)


    This has always been your campaign, and tonight, there’s no one I want to hear from more than you. I
    hope you’re as proud as I am of what we’ve done and that you’ll take a
    moment to share your thoughts with me now at my website.
    (Does putting this email on my blog count??)


    I want to congratulate Senator Obama and his supporters on the
    extraordinary race that they have run. Senator Obama has inspired so
    many Americans to care about politics and empowered so many more to get
    involved, and our party and our democracy are stronger and more vibrant
    as a result. 
    (But my Grandma will still freak if I vote for a black man!)


    Whatever path I travel next, I promise I will keep faith with
    (Cue Billy Joel) you and
    everyone I have met across this good and great country
    (Cue God Bless America). There is no
    possible way to thank you enough for everything you have done
    throughout this primary season, and you will always be in my heart.
    (How did you even know I voted for you?  Do you read my blog?)


    Sincerely,

     

    Hillary Rodham Clinton


    (Really Hillary??  Are you frickin’ kidding me??)

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  • Bend It Like LuLu!

    My Aunt turns 81 next week, so Dar and I took her and my Uncle out for dinner last night.  All I can say is that I hope I look and feel half as good as they do when I’m 81.  At one point, after we got home, she programmed her VCR to tape “Lost” so she could watch it after I left (the finale was great by the way).  I don’t know many 80 year olds who can program a VCR, let alone download and print pictures from a digital camera, which she does all the time. 


    Uncle Georgie, Aunty LuLu, me and Darlene


    My aunt and uncle have been married 59 years on June 11th

    Dar went to the LA Galaxy game and shot some pretty good pictures of David Beckham which I turned into these collages:


    Move over Posh!


    Happy Birthday Aunty LuLu! 

  • Super Mom

    I like to blog about my friend Diane and her 5 boys (2 sets of twins)
    whenever I get the chance.  She’s an inspiration to moms everywhere and
    a personal hero of mine!

    Priest Lake 2 (Medium)


    Carey Anthony


    ker-PLUNK!

    2 messages



    From: Diane

    Wed, May 28, 2008 at 2:53 PM

    To: Carey & Friends

    You missed quite a sight this weekend! 
    While attending Jaden’s baseball tournament in the lovely, resort town of Pasco,
    WA, my darling son, Cole, proceeded to run and jump into the deep end of the
    pool, thinking it was the shallow end.

     
    Being that no one else was swimming, this Mommy
    instinctually jumped in to save him…clothes, shoes, cell phone and all! 
    All the while as the parents and coaches watched in shock (& hysteria I’m
    sure).  Wet t-shirt contest post 5 kids…NOT a good look I assure
    you! 
     
    Never EVER a dull moment when the our gang
    is around!
     
    Needless to say, my phone is toast and I need all
    of your contact numbers again…home, cell, work, etc.
     
    Thanks,
     

    Diane



    From: Carey

    Wed, May 28, 2008 at 3:13 PM

    To: Diane

    OMG, you’re a hero   I want pictures!!
    In the meantime, remember this from last year?

    The other day, while
    cleaning my bathroom with my phone in the pocket of my hooded
    sweatshirt, the damn phone fell in the toilet (it
    was a fresh  bowl). 
      I went online to see if there was anything
    to do without having to buy a new damn phone.  Turns out the
    phone companies have this big conspiracy when the phones get
    wet. They know about water damage because there’s
    a paper
    dot on inside the phone or on the battery that turns red,  so they always make you buy a new
    phone (because water damage isn’t in the warranty).  BUT,
    several websites said something crazy:  If you take out the
    battery and the SIM card, and put the phone in the oven for 5
    hours at 125° it will dry it out.
      I tried it, and
    lo and behold, it worked!  I still have that phone,
    and it’s like nothing ever happened.  The hardest part about
    the whole thing was trying to find the right wine to go with the phone
    .  Also found out the phone companies have big
    drying bins, ovens basically, where they dry out phones and
    resell them as refurbished!  Bastards.  Imagine how
    much money they rake in by making people buy new phones then
    reselling the wet ones.  I’m not sure if it works for every
    phone, and salt water might be a different story, but it worked for me
    (though some of my friends would rather not touch my phone, knowing
    where it’s been, LOL.


    From: Diane

    Wed, May 28, 2008 at 3:29 PM

    To:
    Carey Anthony

    you know what is so funny… i read that posting
    of yours when you posted it a year ago..i thought of it after my “incident” but
    i didn’t have an oven in the hotel.  anyway, my phone was a piece of shit so
    i needed a new one anyway.  what i didn’t realize was that i never saved my
    contacts to my sim card…only to the phone so i lost
    everything….ugghhh..unacceptable!
     
    gly

     

     

     

  • Remembering Iraqi Widows and Cats & Dogs on Memorial Day

    A6
    Oreo, circa 1985

    Twenty years ago, my roommate Daniel and I were fresh out of college and living in a small house in Chicago.  We both worked at different banks and we had been sharing a car for a year and it was getting unmanageable.  One day the bank he was working for had a “repo” or repossessed car that they needed to sell to recoup the loan money.  The reason the bank had repossessed the car was that the car’s owner was dead.  Her name was Sarah, and she had committed suicide……IN THE CAR.

    Now, as creepy as that was, we were recent college graduates, sharing a car, and living in Chicago.  We really needed a 2nd car but couldn’t afford one.  The car that Sarah killed herself in was a Mercury Cougar in mint condition, save for the driver’s side window that had been broken to retrieve Sarah.  We were told her death was by carbon monoxide, but that’s really all we knew.  The bank offered us a deal; pay off the remainder of the $1000 loan and the car was ours.  So we split the money, (actually I lent Daniel his half), and picked up the car “as is”.  (By the way Daniel, you STILL owe me $500…I know you’re reading this too…so PAY UP, or your 4 kids won’t be getting anything from me for Christmas this year, LOL  )

    So, after obtaining a copy of Sarah’s death certificate (which I still have by the way, I’ll have to scan it one of these days), we picked up the car from the bank’s parking lot and drove it home.  We were both a little freaked out, because the windows still hadn’t been fixed, and all of Sarah’s things were still in it.  For whatever reason, no one took the time to clean it out.  So there we were, with Sarah’s Kleenex, Sarah’s lipstick,  and something else of Sarah’s, but more about that in a minute. 

    As soon as we got in the car, my dog Oreo started whining and wouldn’t stop.  As soon as we drove out of the parking lot, we heard a screeching noise coming from the right front wheel well.  We turned a corner and heard it again.  We had no idea what it was, but figured it was something wrong with the alignment and didn’t worry too much (what did we know?).  We were late for a movie or something, so we dropped Oreo off, drove to the theater, parked the car, and went in.  Two hours later we came out to a note on our windshield.  It read simply, “What kind of SICKO are you?  There’s a cat under your hood!!!”  (I think I still have that note somewhere too, LOL!)

    Sure enough, there was a cat, not under the hood, but in the wheel well between the tire and the hood.  We couldn’t see it, but we sure heard it every time we turned the wheel.  We took the car to the police, and they told us it was the damnedest thing they’d ever seen, but they couldn’t help us.  We took it to a mechanic, and they said it would cost us $200 to try to get it out (alive).  Finally we drove the car (with as few turns as possible) to Daniel’s brother in law, an amateur mechanic.  He spent 2 hours taking the front end of the car apart, and finally pulled out a full sized adult cat.  The first thing the cat did was go up to my dog Oreo and start playing with him.  Oreo loved cats, though they usually didn’t love him.  This cat was different though, and they got along splendidly.

    I wasn’t as allergic to cats then as I am now, so we decided to keep her.  We named the cat “Sarah” in honor of the car’s former owner.  Daniel’s last name was Herrera, so the cat was Sarah Herrera.   Where Sarah came from and how she got into such a “spot” we never knew.  We suspected she was a stray and found the car in the parking garage the morning we got it, after taking it out for a test drive.  It was a cold Chicago winter morning, and we think maybe Sarah climbed up into the wheel well to stay warm, and then somehow got stuck and couldn’t get out of the small opening.

    Of course the other theory was that the cat was really a reincarnation of the car’s owner, Sarah, and perhaps the human Sarah was a dog lover, and that’s why the feline Sarah and the canine Oreo got along so well.  Regardless, Sarah and Oreo had a great relationship.  Sarah died a year later of a kidney ailment.  She was the first and last cat I will ever have, but I have fond memories of her

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    Daniel’s daughter Tori, a Sarah Herrera lookalike & Oreo – circa 1996

    I’ve told that story before, but was reminded of it this Memorial Day after reading this story recently about Iraqi war widows.  One of them, Sabriyah Hilal Abadi, now sleeps with an AK47 next to her bed to protect her children.  She says, she was optimistic during the days after the invasion. Her impressions of Americans, shaped largely by a news story she saw on television, gave her hope. The story was about an hours long effort to rescue a cat stuck in a sewage pipe.  “If those people are so good to the animals,” she said, “I was expecting good things.” 

    Nearly 1 million women in Iraq are widows or divorcees, or their husbands are missing, according to Samira al-Mosawi, a Shi’ite member of parliament who heads the women’s affairs committee.  Let’s not forget about them this Memorial Day.

    Also, here’s a link to Haider’s story on This American Life which was re-broadcast last week.  It’s poignant and worth your time.  Download the free podcast and listen the next time you’re stuck in traffic.

    When he was a teenager, Haider Hamza worked in the Iraqi Ministry of Information. He was specially trained to talk to visiting dignitaries and foreign reporters, and he loved his job. It was exciting, and he was treated like a celebrity. Then the war broke out, his family fled, his job disappeared, and Haider suddenly had to figure out what to do next: hide, like his father wanted, or jump into the fray—in one of the most dangerous ways possible. Gideon Yago tells the story. (28 minutes)

    Speaking of the catfights and war, this classic clip is worth watching again.    I’m posting it for Eva & Jessie, as we were discussing it this weekend.  It starts to get really good (and really bitchy) at about 4 minutes 20 seconds.  I hope everyone had a peaceful holiday.

  • Xangalebrities – How Do They Do It?

    I just want to say that I have new found respect for Xanga superstars like Chris and Dan.  I thought I was good at time management, but I could never keep up the pace of responding to hundreds of comments a day on my blog entries.  I have no idea how they do it.  I have received over 70 comments about my Idol photos from Iceland to Islip, Slovenia to Sarasota and it’s not even half of what those guys get on a daily basis!.  It’s amazing how far reaching this show has become.  It’s also amazing to me how many people check the Xanga front page for Featured Content.  I almost never do that.  There are some interesting things out there.

    In just the two hours I was gone for dinner tonight, my Footprints went from 2000 to over 2400.  I’m not sure what I ended the day with, but this has been by far my busiest Xanga day to date.

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    A bunch of Idol Forums and Asian and European fan sites published my photos (stole them actually, but kept the watermark and linked to my site, which is cool).  I’m now contending with a myriad of teenage girls who for some reason think I have David Archuleta on speed dial #3 (Sorry, Jason Castro’s on #2)    Even the official American Idol website, featured my “hot scoop” about the winner and the tramp, with various tweens weighing in on the scandal!  LOL.

    An Israeli site also linked to me, though I didn’t know until checking the Google hits, as I don’t read Hebrew!

    And then there were the Google searches that people used to get to my site.  This one caught my eye:
    Referring URL http://www.google.co…huleta&start=20&sa=N
    Search Engine google.com
    Search Words “a beating” david archuleta
    Visit Entry Page   http://www.xanga.com/CareyGLY

    Hmmm…somehow I have a feeling they weren’t talking about a beating from David Cook.  Paging Child Welfare!  Even the Claymates got into the act!

    At any rate, I won’t be quitting my day job any time soon.  Perez Hilton  and Just Jared need not worry.  LOL

    Eva & Jessie checked in to the Hotel Careyfornia tonight and we braved the unusual California rain showers and had a delightful evening:


    Yes, they’re holding 12 fingers up in front of the 12 Step Store (a place for “recovery” gifts).  LOL


    The ubiquitous Pinkberry visit


    We retired back to the HC to watch Haider on “This American Life

    Good night from Hollywood.  Thanks for all of the comments and emails!  I appreciate all the kind words!  –Carey