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  • The Best Little Kennel, Boutique Hotel & Parking Garage in Southern California

    It was a busy afternoon at the Hotel Careyfornia.  Lisa ,Joel & the boys are going to Hawaii for 9 days and I’m watching their dogs, Shadow & Oreo (named after my Oreo!).  They’re parking their car here at my place (just like Claudio is), so now I have 3 cars.  That’s kind of ironic seeing that my own car was in the shop for four months up until recently.  So when Lisa & Joel got here, I took a late lunch and we went to Jerry’s Famous Deli.  After that we headed to the airport, where, coincidentally, Vivek had just flown in from Delhi, India, by way of Seoul, South Korea.  He’s here for an internship, and will hopefully get some good news about the Project Runway application he submitted.  (I’m really hoping for a ticket to the Oscars next year Vivek, especially since you didn’t bring me a souvenir from Korea!!)  Vivek was super tired after his whirlwind trip to Korea and flight to LA, so we did a quick drive down Rodeo Drive in Beverly Hills, and the sites of Hollywood (Grauman’s, the Kodak Theater, etc.) before he retired for the evening to get a good night’s rest and start the first day of the rest of his life tomorrow!


    The obligatory pose!


    A very dangerous picture!


    Waiting for the valet at the H.C.


    “This is is the day…your life will surely change.”


    …and Pet Motel.


    Blog buddies!


    I hope this song is good luck for you Vivek.  It was playing on a fateful day in 1990 when I made a decision that would change my life forever.  It involved switching jobs, agreeing to take care of two children and moving from Chicago.  I never looked back, and I hope that this too “is the day your life will surely change.”



    ON THE LIGHTER SIDE
    “More
    bad news for air travelers. Earlier today, U.S. Airways began charging
    passengers on its flights for water. Even worse, the oxygen masks are now
    coin-operated.” — Conan O’Brien

  • Civil Twilight – “I Want the Sun Back”


    Carey Anthony


    Re: Dinner Tonight

    4 messages


    On Thu, Jul 10, 2008 at 8:16 AM, Carey wrote:

    This is just an idea, but what if we got something to
    eat tonight and took it to Laguna Beach and watched the sun set?  Would
    the kids be into that or no?

    Carey


    On Thu, Jul 10, 2008 at 8:25 AM, Lisa wrote:

    I think that’s a wonderful idea!  I could get
    subway for the boys (and for us too if that’s what you want) &
    I’ll pack a cooler of drinks.  We could put a blanket down on the grass at
    Main beach in Laguna & have a great picnic.  Gosh, every once in a
    while, you come up with some good ones!  See, that’s why you get to make
    all of the decisions!  We could pick up the sandwiches right after
    gymnastics & pick you up at your office…it’s on the way.  What time
    are you off?


    On Thu, Jul 10, 2008 at 8:28 AM, Carey wrote:

    Sounds great!
    You don’t have to rush though.  Pick me up whenever.  The sun doesn’t even set until 8:03, and civil twilight ends at 8:32!
    http://aa.usno.navy.mil/cgi-bin/aa_pap.pl
    See you later! xoxo

    Carey


    On Thu, Jul 10, 2008 at 8:30 AM, Lisa wrote:

    Civil twilight?  Did you make that shit
    up??? 



    Who’s your favorite cousin???


    If the video below doesn’t work, click here.


    Laguna Beach Sunset – As the sun disappeared, Andy said, “I want the sun back!” 


    Best of the rest!

  • “And the Rockets’ Red Glare”

    Best of the rest

    jiazhousarcasmo‘s excellent summation!

  • T’was the Night Before Fireworks


    As I’ve recounted before, I’m not a big fan of the 4th of July (Independence Day in America).  This year should be fun though, as I’m spending the night with my cousins.  This morning we’ll take the kids to the parade and then we have a cabana rented by the lake for the day.  We’ll watch the fireworks, and then I’ll head back up to LA to greet yet another guest at the HC.  If any of you Orange County Xangans are going to be at the parade or lake tomorrow, text me.  My # is on my Facebook badge to the left. 

    We took the boys to Chick-fil-A tonight, and then took Tommy to get a birthday present.  Here are a few snaps:


    Notice the sign to my left.  LOL

     


    I love Chik-fil-A!  Instead of giving out horrible plastic toys in their kids meals, they give out CD to help kid learn another language!

     

    fireworks
    Have a safe, happy 4th everyone!

    It’s OK Or!! xoxo

  • Steve Carell’s Doppelganger, Hillary’s Not Going, Knocking With My Cousins & Muskrat Love


    Carey Anthony


    get smart

    2 messages



    From: Tony

    Thu, Jun 5, 2008 at 12:03 AM

    To:
    Carey Anthony

    hey carey
    so i’ve always thought u
    look a bit like steve carell.  so i made one of my movie profile pics
    thingy for ya.  hope you like it!




    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Jun 5, 2008 at 1:05 AM

    To:
    Tony

    WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I love it!!   You’re the best!!!
    I’m
    also a huge Get Smart fan (I loved the original TV series, it came out the year I was born, 1965), and you’re not the first person who’s
    noticed the Carell resemblance.   Thank you so much.  And thank you
    for not thinking I look like Dewey Cox!!!!    If I knew PhotoShop,
    you would definitely be my Brad Pitt! 

    Thanks again!

    Carey


    Speaking of not knowing PhotoShop, I created and wrote this today after reading David’s entry about Hillary and listening to Jennifer Hudson’s latest single (which is quite catchy) on her website:  www.jenniferhudsononline.com.

    Sung to the tune of “And I Am Telling You, I’m Not Going” from Dreamgirls

    And I am telling you
    I’m not going.
    This is the best race, I ever ran.
    Even though he’s a black man,
    No, no, no, no way,
    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.
    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.
    I don’t want to be beat.
    I’m stayin’,
    I’m stayin’,
    And you, and you, you will elect me.
    Ooh, you will elect me.

    And I am telling you
    I’m not going,
    Even though the rough times are showing.
    There’s just no way,
    There’s no way.
    We’re not part of the same place.
    We’re not part of the same time.
    We don’t share the same blood.
    In fact he’s a black guy.
    And time and time we have not much to share,
    No, no, no,
    No, no, no,
    I’m not wakin’ up tomorrow mornin’
    And findin’ that Bill’s not even there.
    Darling, there’s no way,
    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.
    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.
    You see, there’s just no way,
    There’s no way.

    Screw Martin Luther,
    Yell, scream and shout.
    You can say what you want,
    I’m not gettin’ out.
    Stop the convention,
    Push, strike, and kill.
    Just like Ralph Nader,
    There’s no way I will.

    And I am telling you

    I’m not going.


    This is the best race, I ever ran.


    Even though he’s a black man,


    No, no, no, no way,


    No, no, no, no way I’m not livin’ in the White House.


    Oh, I’m not not livin’ in the White House,


    I’m not not livin’ in the White House.


    I don’t wanna be beat.


    I’m stayin’,


    I’m stayin’,


    And you, and you,


    You will elect me.


    Oh, hey, you will elect me,


    Yes, ah, ooh, ooh, ‘lect me,


    Ooh, ooh, ooh, ‘lect me,


    ‘Lect me,


    ‘Lect
    me,

    ‘Lect
    me,

    ‘Lect
    me.

    You will elect me.

    This still gives me goose bumps when I watch it.  I remember seeing it at the Arclight when it first came out.  There were a bunch of celebrities in the audience, including Whoopi Goldberg and Ron Howard.  Everyone stood up, in the middle of the song and started applauding until it was over.  It was the first time I’d ever seen that happen in the middle of a movie!


    Lisa and I took the boys to Costco tonight to finally return my third camera.  They took it back, no questions asked (2 1/2 months after purchase), and gave me cash.  Gosh, I love Costco.  (The only thing that bummed me out was that my SD850 (that I spent an addition $100 repairing) was on sale for $275 and it came with a free flatbed printer scanner!!)

    After shopping we took the boys at met Joel at Pei Wei, where they both tried their hand at chopsticks, with a little help.


    Andy and his knock knock jokes.  LOL.
    By the way, check out YouTube’s new annotation feature.  It’s not available yet for embedded videos, so take a look here:  http://youtube.com/watch?v=gJ8XpEHrjQg

    When I got home, this little fella was blocking my way into the garage.  I got out of the car to try to shoo him away and he was hurt and moving really slow.  I felt kind of sorry for the ugly bugger, and directed him toward the bushes.


    I know it’s not a muskrat, it’s a possum, but it gave me the opportunity to post this ridiculously cheesy song from the 70′s.  LOL


  • Speaking of Faith

    The Flying Spaghetti Monster (also known as the Spaghedeity) is the deity of a parody religion called The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster and its system of beliefs, “Pastafarianism” The religion was founded in 2005 by Bobby Henderson to protest the decision by the Kansas State Board of Education to require the teaching of intelligent design as an alternative to biological evolution. Because intelligent design
    implies the existence of an intelligent, but not necessarily omnipotent
    or omniscient designer, some, like Henderson, argued that this designer
    could, in fact, be anything imaginable. (Source: Wikipedia and  Haochi)


    Cole had his First Communion this past weekend.  It brought back many memories of my own First Communion as well as some of the more ritualistic things I actually enjoy about the Catholic Church.  Coincidentally, on the way home, NPR‘s weekly religion show “Speaking of Faith” departed from their usual format to “listen to a spectrum of lay Catholic voices on the force of vast and ancient tradition on their lives, the way they struggle with it, the sources of their love for it. Even to be a “lapsed Catholic,” we hear, is a complex state of being.“  It was really interesting, and helped me understand some of my current struggles with religion a bit better.  At any rate, it was a beautiful day, and Cole seemed to have a great time!

  • Carey the Human Trampoline

    We went to Cole’s Little League game tonight, and I’m a heck of a lot more sore than any of the players!

      

  • Cubing With “The Luckiest Kid in the World…”

    Lisa, Joel, Tommy & Andy met me at the Discovery Science Center today, which was hosting the World Cube Association 2008 competition.  Since Tyson is moving to New York next week, this was my last chance to see him for a while.  He competed in the blindfold solve (see video below) and did great as usual.  Tommy really took a liking to the whole “cubefreak” phenomenon.  When asked if he would rather go to the dinosaur exhibit or go meet Tyson, he opted for meeting Tyson.  At one point afterwards, he said to me, “I’m the luckiest kid in the world.  I just got to meet Carey’s famous friend.”  (I had explained to Tommy that Tyson was on Beauty and the Geek and had taught Will Smith how to solve the cube for The Pursuit of Happyness.  That really impressed him!)  After they got home, apparently Tommy donned a blindfold and gave it a try.  LOL.  He was also infatuated by the video of Macky I had on my iPod where he solves the cube with one hand, while juggling 2 cubes with the other.  See for yourself:

    Tommy has now proclaimed himself, “Tommy the Science Nerd”.  It’s going to be an interesting next 12 years.  LOL.  Best of luck in New York Tyson!

    BTW, the movie “Cubefreak” is premiering next Saturday at the Newport Beach Film Festival.  If anyone wants to go, let me know.

  • Burgers With Smeagol the Iraqi Lizard

    Most of the family was busy tonight, but Lisa was nice enough to bring the boys to meet me at Fuddruckers after work.  I got there a little early and struck up a conversation with a young marine named Frank.  He was there with his wife and step-daughter and his pet iguana, Smeagol.  Since you don’t see an iguana on a leash every day, I asked him if I could take a couple of photos.  He graciously obliged, and gave me his email address to send them to him.  Later, we all talked as he played video games with the kids.  At only 20 years old, he was really just a kid himself, and had already completed one tour of duty in Iraq, and was about to leave on his second tour; leaving his wife, step-daughter, and presumably Smeagol, behind.  (I doubt he got the iguana in Iraq, I embellished that part, to make the title of this post more dramatic.  LOL)  He was limping, and I asked him if he had been injured while serving, but he told me it was a skateboard accident.    “No fucking hadji is going to hurt me.”, was his response, which was remarkably similar to how the kids in the movie Stop Loss spoke.  Nearly verbatim in fact.  (I asked him if he’d seen it, he hadn’t.)  I’m troubled by the hate of other cultures we’re breeding in our military.  It’s probably nothing new though.  Nonetheless, he was a charming young man, who like James and Jimmy, I’m glad to have on our side.

    From www.lewrockwell.com:

    There are basically
    two types of soldiers in most units. There are the career guys who
    have more than a decade invested and have seen so many commanders
    like this they believe them to be the norm rather than the exception.
    Then, there are the young soldiers who have fallen for the line
    about killing as many of these “rag heads” as possible
    because of 9/11 and protecting “the folks back home.”
    Soldiers, who see this war for what it is and voice those thoughts,
    are reported up the line as malcontents and enemy sympathizers.
    The vast majority of soldiers would rather live through the lies
    and atrocities than be labeled a traitor and the ramifications of
    that label once they return home. So, many just hope to survive
    and get the hell out of the military and away from the madmen who
    lead them.

    This
    nation, its political leadership and the vast majority of its religious
    leaders, have thrown away their moral compass and replaced it with
    a rabid nationalism unseen on the world stage since Germany in the
    1930s. Torture and murder of hundreds of thousands are readily accepted,
    as long as it is done for the graven image called the State. Eventually,
    unless we take a different path, the number of those tortured and
    murdered will include those in this country who refuse to submit
    to the State as it pursues its “mission
    from God.”
    The venom readily spews forth from the shills
    for the State now, building a hate and resentment in the masses
    for any who would challenge the official position of perpetual war
    for peace.

    Since
    our nation and its civilian leaders have lost their ability to judge
    right from wrong, why should we expect anything different from our
    military?

    On a side note, my crazy neighbor, who I blogged about a while back, finally moved out.  But not before leaving this note, on my other neighbor’s door!  (Not mine, thank goodness.)  I would love to know what it said.  LOL.

  • Merry Go Rounds & Forced Subscriptions

    Our weekly family dinner was at the Irvine Spectrum tonight.  The kids had a nice time.  Here a few shots.  I’m still experimenting with the new camera.

    This is funny…Tommy overheard the adults talking and picked up on the term “Brother from another mother”.  He made a song about it, and after I filmed it, he wanted me to film it again while JUST keeping the camera on him and not moving it around to see all of our reactions.  LOL



    Complaint Department

    Is anyone else as annoyed about this as I am?  Maybe I’m being too hard on the good folks at Xanga.  They’ve been trying really hard this year.  I can be a bitch.  Is it just me??

    As you read this, keep in mind, it could be worse.  I like Xanga.  I didn’t like efax:


    Carey Anthony 

    Please advise
    5 messages


    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 8:56 AM

    To: Natalia – Xanga Support Team

    Natalia,

     Is there a way to disable the “Subscribe to get updates from this site” pop-up that appears for non-members who come to my site?  It’s
    deceptively annoying!  Why not let people subscribe to the RSS or Atom
    feeds like Blogger does?  95% of the time people don’t want to be
    forced to sign up for something just to read or receive updates on a
    blog.  If you simply allowed them to enter their email addresses to
    receive updates, and be done with it, that would be fine.  But if they
    do enter their email address, they’re brought to a Xanga sign up page
    which is EXTREMELY annoying and presumptive.


    If
    you’re not the person I should be bugging about this, let me know.  I
    can send it to Chris or John or whomever you tell me to.  Thanks



    Thanks,

    Carey


    From: Natalia – Xanga Support Team
    Date: Tue, Apr 1, 2008 at 12:15 PM
    To: Carey Anthony


    Hola. Hope the new year is finding you well – haven’t
    heard from you in a while.

    The pop-up is IP based, so it shouldn’t show up as long as
    your visitors aren’t clearing their cookies each day. It is deceptively
    annoying, yes, but it takes two seconds to register and we’re hoping that
    more people will take advantage of doing exactly what you said –
    receiving updates by email, even if that means they don’t update their
    own personal blog. So far, it’s actually been very effective, so . . .
    yes.

    And by the way, I almost didn’t email you back because I
    saw your “goodbye Xanga” post today – [faceplant].

    Have a good one.

    Can you drop Ben a line?


    From: Carey Anthony
    Date: Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 8:50 AM
    To: Natalia – Xanga Support Team
    Cc: Ben – Xanga

    Will do.  Thanks.

    Sorry
    to be a pest about this, but I don’t think Premium members should have
    to pay for a site that’s basically unusable until people choose to sign
    up or not.  Again, the way it’s done is very deceptive and shady.  If
    you just allowed people to enter their email addresses in for updates,
    that would be one thing, but to then trick them into signing up for
    something they have no intention of ever using, is entirely another. 

    Ben, please advise.

    Thanks


    From: Ben

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 10:18 AM

    To:
    Carey Anthony


    Hi Carey,

    I’m sorry that you are experiencing so many problems. Let
    me try and help you (or at least provide some answers).

    Is
    there a way to disable the “subscribe to this blog to receive updates”
    popup?

    The popup is meant to
    display only ONCE to users that are not signed in. The way we ‘remember’
    if we’ve shown the popup to a particular user is by using Browser Cookies.
    If the cookies are deleted, then our memory of having shown the popup is erased
    and the system displays it again upon the user’s next visit.

    Under normal
    circumstances, users WILL NOT see the popup if either of these two criteria are
    met: (1) user is signed into Xanga, (2) user has seen popup once before.

    You mentioned that
    your computer at work does not store cookies. Are you able to sign into Xanga
    from work? If so, then your computer’s browser should be able to store
    cookies since we also set cookies when users sign in.

    Hope this helps,

    Ben


    From: Carey Anthony

    Thu, Apr 3, 2008 at 6:56 PM

    To:
    Ben

    Hi Ben,

    Thanks for the quick response.  As you
    know I’m a huge Xanga advocate, but this issue is really bothering me. 
    Let me try to articulate why.  I understand that the “subscribe”
    pop-up is based on cookies on the user’s computer.  I understand how
    this works and why you did it that way.  I must heartily disagree with
    its methodology though. 

    First of all it’s deceptive.  I would almost be OK with it
    if it simply allowed you to put in your email address to get email
    updates whenever I updated my blog, but even then I would want the
    option to turn it off.  As it stands now, once you put in your email
    address, you are then taken to a Xanga sign up page. This is a
    very tricky way of enticing people who simply wanted to get an email
    update about their favorite blog to sign up for a blogging service that
    they don’t want.  How do I know they don’t want it?  Because they have
    not signed up in the past!  Blog readers are not all blog writers.  I
    frequented many Xanga blogs for years before I decided to make the leap
    and create my own blog.  Before that, I signed up for Xanga simply in
    order to leave comments on other blogs (this was before you added the
    ability to let outsiders comment).  I think you need to ask yourself
    what the true intent of this feature is?  Natalia, after admitting it
    was deceptive, told me that it was indeed working to get new people to
    sign up.  I would be curious to know how many people that signed up as
    a result of that pop-up, actually started blogs.  And of those who did,
    how many became paying customers?

    As a loyal, paying customer, I find it extremely annoying
    that your are paralyzing (the screen is literally locked by this
    pop-up) my readers until this decision is made.  Yes, most people only
    see this once (until they clear their cookies).  But once is too much
    in my opinion.  I pay you to REMOVE pop-ups and advertising from my
    blog not create them.  I do not need Xanga deceptively recruiting my
    readers.  Why not let them poke around as I did, and decide for
    themselves?  As far as the cookies go, many advanced computer users
    choose to not allow cookies on many websites.  They are intrusive and
    sneaky.  I understand that under “normal” circumstances most people see
    the pop-up once.  What’s normal though?  I clear my cookies regularly
    as most people should.  Corporate users may have no control over
    whether or not cookies are allowed on certain sites (that’s the case at
    my company).  Yes, you can view Xanga from within the company’s
    network, but the cookies are blocked.  In addition, on a slow computer,
    the pop-up really impacts performance.  I had one person tell me that
    it took so long to clear that they closed their browser and gave up. 
    That should NOT be happening.  I looked at her computer today, and sure
    enough, because she doesn’t have enough RAM, my page loads and then it
    goes gray (see attached screen shot, grey.jpg), and then it takes about
    90 seconds to be able to say “no thanks” to the pop-up and then,
    because she’s not able to accept the Xanga cookie due to company
    restrictions, the whole thing happens the next time she tries to go to
    my site.  Long story short, she can’t read my site, and since she
    doesn’t have a computer at home, her lunch hour is the only time she
    can do it.  She likes my site, but she just can’t read it!

    You guys have been very good about adding new features and
    functionality this year.  In nearly every case though, you asked your
    user base about it before implementation and welcomed comments and
    feedback.  This feature seems to have been introduced with no input
    from the user base and no controls whatsoever.  While I appreciate your
    corporation endeavoring to build its clientèle, I can assure you that
    my elderly relatives and some computer illiterate friends will NEVER
    start a blog.  I can also assure you that I will not be allowing
    cookies I don’t need on my work laptop, because well, I don’t need
    them!

    I’ll end where I began.  The bottom line is that this feature is
    intrusive and deceptive.  It’s only goal is to get people to sign up
    for a service that they might not otherwise sign up for.  It does not
    work well for advanced users who choose to control the cookies their
    computer receives and for those who practice good computer maintenance
    by clearing their cookies.  It is confusing to less computer literate
    people and causes performance problems on older systems.  Why would a
    company with such a good reputation persist in this kind of trickery? 
    I humbly request that you reconsider this policy or at least provide  an
    opt-out. 

    Thanks for reading my rant.  Hopefully you understand what I’m
    trying to say here.  I enjoy working with you guys and only want the
    site to be better for everyone.  Customers and non  customers alike. 
    Thanks for your time.

    Carey
    http://xanga.com/careygly