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  • No Use Crying Over Spilt Milk

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    Tonight’s weekly family dinner was more somber than most, but as you can see, we tried to not let that show to the kids.  Dave is still in intensive care on life support.  The doctors don’t all seem to be on the same page about his treatment, which is rather annoying.  As of last night we were preparing for the worst but this morning there was a glimmer of hope in the form of a tracheotomy.  As it is, he’s one of the oldest Cystic Fibrosis patients on record.  Please keep him in your thoughts.

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    It was nice to hear that NDM‘s cousin’s wife gave birth to a beautiful baby.  The Circle of Life.

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    My favorite picture of the evening….look how happy the little goober looks with his toothbrush.  LOL

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  • Virginia Tech – One Week Later – And Onward

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    From: Bine
    Date: Apr 23, 2007 4:51 PM
    Subject: Monday
    To: Carey, Eva, Carolina
     
    I arrived safely here in Blacksburg. After dropping my backpack off I went to see Lindsay and we talked until 3 am, which was really good. So I was a bit better prepared for campus today. my bike ride into school was easier than I had thought, but it took me a while to enter my office building. And it is amazing, our floor is full with cards from school-kids throughout the country, some are even from Portland, Oregon!
    At 9:45 this morning we all went to the drill field for a moment of silence. Very powerful. The media was asked not to take pictures and to leave campus sooner than later and as far as I know, most of them have left. This makes it all a bit more normal. Yet there is still a lot of police around, even FBI is still investigating…which is actually hilarious as those guys really look like out of a movie…gee!

    My advisor came to my office today, tears in his eyes, gave me a hug and told me that he was so happy, that it didn’t happen on Tuesday. We sat in my lab for quite some time and talked about all the good people we have lost and exchanged stories. After that I felt better about being back. And now I am actually glad, not only because Alan is arriving here soon, but because we actually had the chance to do something. One professor had sent out an e-mail today:

    EWR Grad students,
     
    I’m trying to get volunteers to help two of our own survivors, Lee
    & Nathaniel.  Lee & Maria just bought a house, but haven’t been
    able to move in yet because they wanted to paint the walls and get new
    carpet first.  Nathaniel will then be able to move in with Lee & Maria.
    I think it would be great if we can pitch in and help.
     
    If you can spare an hour or more, please stop by their house at 1100
    Golfview Drive later today.  Painting will start around 3:30 or 4.
    Thanks!!!
     
    Of course a bunch of us went there and helped painting and this was such a great feeling. Lee (btw, this is not my room mate Lee) told some stories about last week, which were hard to bear but helped him to get it out.

    True, we are far from a normal life here on campus. We still miss the ones we have lost, but it is actually helpful to be back. Also for the professors, they did an still do an amazing job trying to guide and help their students. Counselors were coming into every classroom today, to talk to the students. Professors stand in front of their classes, in tears, trying to give answers which they can’t but the interaction and the understanding of the students is a big help.

    There is also a lot of talk about the funerals. And all the stories are so positive. Southern baptist, Jews, Hindu are going together to a Muslim funeral. The only religion that combines everybody at this very moment and this very place is love and grief.

    I showed/forwarded Carey’s blog to a lot of people here and they really appreciated what you have done.

    I again want to thank you guys for being such wonderful friends!

    I love you so much and I appreciate our little family! I  feel very lucky
     
    love,

    Bine
    And now, because I want to put something on this website for the first time in a week that will make people smile instead of cry; I present to you my cousin’s new dog:
    Drum roll please

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    Ah, the innocence of children and puppy dogs!  Let the healing begin.

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    Andy & Roxy

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    Tommy & Roxy

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    Tressa & Roxy

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     Welcome to the family Roxy!

  • Hooray for Hollywood

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    As most of you probably know, Saturday is The National Day of Climate Action. If any of you are interested in hiking up to the Hollywood Sign, let me know.  There will be some great photo opps.   If not, there are events all over.  You can check www.stepitup2007.org  for more info.

    On this one spring day, there will be hundreds and hundreds of rallies all across the country.  There are gatherings in every state, and in many of America’s most iconic places:  on the levees in New Orleans, on top of melting glaciers on Mt. Rainier, even underwater on the endangered coral reefs off Key West.  In Florida they’re hoisting a huge boat up in the air to show people where  the water levels will be in 50 years!

    There will be rallies outside churches, along the tide lines in our coastal cities, in cornfields and forests and on statehouse steps. Every group will be saying the same thing: “Step it up, Congress! Cut Carbon 80% by 2050.” As people gather, pictures will be linked in real time via the web–before the weekend is out, it will be the largest protest the country has ever seen. Here in Hollywood the peaceful demonstration will take place at:

    ***THE HOLLYWOOD SIGN***

    April 14, 2007 01:00PM to 03:00PM

    Event Description:  Take a hike to the Hollywood Sign!
    Location:  Hike up there through Bronson Canyon, from Canyon Drive in Hollywood.
    Directions:  Drive north up Bronson Avenue until it becomes Canyon Drive. Continue up Canyon Drive until it becomes Brush Canyon Trail. At the end, the road enters the gates to the park which is at the bottom of Bronson Canyon. Either park up here, or keep driving on Brush Canyon Trail until you reach the car parks on the right or later on the left. Now it’s time to take a hike up the dirt trail until we’re all underneath the Hollywood Sign.
     
    If you need a ride, call me or email me at careygly@gmail.com  –Carey

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    I certainly hope you guys aren’t getting tired of dogs and babies, because you’re going to be seeing a LOT of them on this blog.  Babysitting and dogsitting are two of my favorite things to do.  Do you know that some professional dog-walkers in this crazy town make 6 figures??  Only in Hollyweird!
     
    Today, Seth and Jessica dropped off their dogs, Garbo & Ruby (I did a blog for the dogs last year, before I started this one, LOL), for a mini-vacation at the luxurious Hotel Careyfornia.   They brought their 16 month old daughter Hannah (the genius child….she’s working on the Rubik’s Cube, watch out Tyson….she loves it!) and I snapped some shots.  (Mind you, this is in between phone calls from the Ford Child Modeling Agency and Toyota, who needs a precocious red head for their latest commercial.  Two words:  Danny Bonaduce!!)  j/k (Don’t freak out Jessica!) LOL
     
    Hannah really is smart though, she’s got the vocabulary of a six year old, and man can she sing!  She makes Sanjaya sound like William Hung!   Anyway, I’ve got the dogs until Wednesday.  It’s funny, whenever they stay with me they need a vacation afterwards.  I walk them for miles every evening, all around West Hollywood.  They attract a lot of attention.  At home they’re used to going to bed at 8 or 9 with Hannah, and when they’re here, we sometimes go for walks at 3 AM, when I’m done writing this thing!  So, needless to say, their schedules get all out of whack, but they certainly have fun!  Have a good evening everyone.  Hope to see some of you at the rally tomorrow!
     
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    Look Daddy, there’s so much to break in Carey’s house!! I can even play in the Zen Garden!
     
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    God Love Google & Sanjaya, but not Imus

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    New York to Paris  – Pay special attention to #23

    Thanks to zealousalien for finding this one – Google 411  FREE Directory Assistance. Screw Cingular!

    And finally thanks to Bhavin for another reason to love the elitists at Google. Free Wireless Broadband!

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    And don’t forget GoogleFight.  Let’s try Sanjaya vs. Clay Aiken

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    Deconstructing Sanjaya

    Now they’re saying he can win.  And apparently it’s national news!?

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    First of all, I’m aware that Sanjaya came before the serious stuff, but I swear every other Google search that comes to my site from anywhere in the world, comes for Sanjaya.  It’s crazy!  Anyway, like a lot of Americans, I’m troubled by the racist remarks of Don Imus.  I’ve never listened to or watched the guy.  Frankly every time I see his face on TV, I cringe.  He makes Howard Stern look like Brad Pitt!  What he said was indeed racist and stupid, though I’m not sure why there’s such a big stink now.  From what I read, this guy has been a hate monger for years.  I wonder why there wasn’t such a public outcry when Mel Gibson or Michael Richards spewed their rants?  I don’t remember this kind of uproar in those two cases.  I live literally a block away from The Comedy Store where “Kramer” went crazy.  There were reporters and of course Jesse Jackson out in front of that place for about 3 days, and then it miraculously subsided.  What’s up with that?

    I do believe however, that it is a slippery slope when corporations encroach upon freedoms guaranteed in the Constitution to every American citizen.  Let’s face it; Don Imus has been spewing this hateful nonsense for years.  Why is it news now?  How ironic is it that the 3 year saga of the Duke lacrosse “rape” case was dismissed this week?  Two examples of disenfranchised black women vs. admittedly privileged white males.  I really don’t know what to make of it.  Do you?  There’s certainly enough hate to go around with conservatives though, and they all stand behind the Patriot Act, until it’s their ass on the line.  Take a look:

    Limbaugh: Gonzales is “under fire by white liberal racists in the Senate”

    Beck continues attacks on ABC colleague O’Donnell

    CNN’s, ABC’s Beck on Clinton: “She’s the stereotypical bitch”

    Limbaugh suggested Edwards camp “leak[ed]” false information to Politico reporter “to jump-start the campaign”

    Beck said “I’m a little ashamed” for calling O’Donnell “a fat witch” — then added, “But she’s so fat”

    Beck smeared ABC colleague Rosie, claimed “I never said that Hillary Clinton was a bitch”

    These people all think WAY too much of themselves.  Rush Limbaugh this morning was saying that the Imus situation could actually help the troops in Iraq.  I like to listen to Rush sometimes, just because of the whole, keep your friends close and your enemies closer rule.  But this morning, I had to turn him off.

    Meanwhile, in Washington, President Bush is still searching for a brain.

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    God, November 2008 cannot come soon enough!!  Lord help us.


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    And last, but certainly not least, thanks to Marc (mdrezz) for this “pointed assessment” of the Fox News networks place in our media megamix. Mellman of course, was Clinton’s chief pollster.  xo


    I had dinner down in Laguna with Dar & Dave, and Jenn & Tressa:

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    Crazy Spaghetti Girl

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    Tressa in a rare “normal” smile

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    Good ghetti!

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    Dar, Jenn & Tressa

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    My “Asian” chicken salad (they don’t say Chinese anymore.  LOL)

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    The best thing in this restaurant: PIZZOOKIES!!

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    This is from the top of my hill next to my house. That’s downtown Los Angeles

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    I live next door to the House of Blues on the Sunset Strip. Not sure who was playing tonight.

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    A relatively clear night in LaLa Land